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User Topic: Reminder to All
SI Staff
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Member # 10
Target  Posted: 9:25 AM, May 15th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Reminder to All -

Pulling all or part of a thread from the WS forum and posting it in another forum is against the guidelines.

When posting in the WS, remember these rules:
BS's are not to post on threads unless the WS is seeking and asks for BS responses.

BS's are not to start threads asking questions of the WS's.

BS's & Madhatters are not allowed to post on stop sign threads.

Please review the site Guidelines in the yellow box to the left and all the forum descriptions under each forum title.

Thank you.


Posts: 10000 | Registered: May 2002
painfulpast
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Default  Posted: 2:45 PM, May 15th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

BS's are not to post on threads unless the WS is seeking and asks for BS responses.

****gently raises hand*****


I was under the impression that no stop sign meant a BS could post. This sounds like the WS that originally starts the thread must also specifically state that BS responses are requested.

I'm only asking publicly in case others are also wondering about this.

Thanks :)


It's so easy to believe someone when they're telling you exactly what you want to hear.....

Posts: 1751 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: East Coast
islesguy
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Default  Posted: 2:49 PM, May 15th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I was under the same impression. I purposely don't put stop signs because I was BS responses. Are you saying as well as no stop sign I specifically need to say BS's welcome?


Me: WH
Father of 3 beautiful girls

* I am a RS (Recovering Scumbag)
* Do as I say, NOT as I did. :-(
* I acknowledge the grace I have received. I know do not deserve it.


Posts: 180 | Registered: Jan 2013
Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 2:59 PM, May 15th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

If there isn't a stop sign then BS's can reply on it.


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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spond
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Member # 41686
Default  Posted: 3:01 PM, May 15th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks for the clarification DS!!!


BH(me) | fWW
2 Kids - Married 2002
D-Day TT & EA | D-Day #2 PA
Reconciling

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remorsefulww
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Default  Posted: 3:05 PM, May 15th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have been on si for months, but I still dont know what a madhatter is.

Posts: 43 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: new york
NoGoodUsername
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Default  Posted: 3:08 PM, May 15th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

A madhatter is someone who is both a Betrayed and Wayward spouse.


Me: WH
Her: BW
Dday 7/11/13
"May you be protected from hearts that are not humble, tongues that are not wise and eyes that have forgotten how to cry."

Posts: 220 | Registered: Aug 2013
Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 3:09 PM, May 15th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Madhatter = A member that is both BS & WS in their current relationship


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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remorsefulww
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Default  Posted: 3:42 PM, May 15th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you.

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Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 4:14 PM, May 15th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Of course


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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SandAway
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Default  Posted: 4:20 PM, May 15th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Glad you posted this reminder DS.

I cringe when I see members discussing specific posts elsewhere, especially in protected areas...


fWW
BH Tred
M 16yrs
DDay Nov. 2011

Guns don't kill people; Affairs kill people


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MissesJai
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Default  Posted: 4:25 PM, May 15th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I cringe when I see members discussing specific posts elsewhere, especially in protected areas...
Me too. The mods are amazing. I know for certain I am protected.


FWW - 40
I'm big on personal responsibility. Own your shit. ALL OF IT.

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pastthelies
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Default  Posted: 4:40 PM, May 16th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you DS! Very different perspective of the actual question to start with - so that makes for some heated responses. Thanks for having everyone's back.

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wheat
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Default  Posted: 6:30 PM, May 16th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You rock, DS, MH, and all the staff.


"Every new day is another chance to change your life."

FSOW - late 30's, married now.


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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 9:53 PM, May 16th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Our members are pretty amazing.

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AFrayedKnot
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Default  Posted: 10:00 PM, May 16th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I cringe when I see members discussing specific posts elsewhere, especially in protected areas...

I cringe just as much when a thread from an unprotected area gets discussed in a protected area with a stop sign.


BS 39
fWS 36 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

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