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User Topic: The stupid reasons I stayed w/ XH
Emotionalhell
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Default  Posted: 5:07 PM, May 16th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

For the children.: now I am afraid I taught them to put up with to much : that I may have taught them , the children that verbal abuse is okay.

Religious reasons: God doesn't like divorce. I took a vow seriously. Reality... God doesn't expect you to endure mistreatment .

Family reasons: I did not want to be a failure. I did not want to listen to my mother say .." I told you so ".:(

Financial reasons :....... Boy was I naive on this one. My XH had no common sense with. $ . Always blamed me for not having any. $ . But it was nothing for him to charge lots of $ on credit cards then wonder why we had no $.
I am better off $ wise than I was .

Fear of being alone.. Reality. I like my own company. It's peaceful. . It's nice not to have the verbal abuse & drama.


Just some things to ponder. I'm sure many of you could have your own list .


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wontdefineme
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Default  Posted: 9:56 PM, May 16th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

All of the above for me too!

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wontdefineme
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Default  Posted: 9:56 PM, May 16th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Edited because I hit submit twice.

[This message edited by wontdefineme at 9:57 PM, May 16th (Friday)]


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better4me
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Default  Posted: 9:36 AM, May 17th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

great post!


DDay 11/17/2010 BW:52
Divorced

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GotPlayed
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Default  Posted: 7:04 PM, May 17th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Couldn't have written this better myself. Thank you for that.


Master of my Fate, Captain of my Soul.
BS 42, WW 41. 18y married
DD: 11/5/13
DS10 Autism, DD8
OM: Reformed wife-beater ex-con
D filed 1/14/14 by WW (never warn them, they'll get ahead)
Married a powder keg

Posts: 690 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: California
9years
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Default  Posted: 10:17 AM, May 18th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sounds about right, but I'll ad one
'He's got so many decent qualities and soo much potential, if only'


Just say yes to the rest

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