I am truly unsure just how to move past this, but I do know I want to, just have to work out how!
BS (me) 40
OW - a friend of WH for 5 years
4 month EA which turned into a 5 month PA
Us together 20 years, married 17 and 6 kids
I always thought I was enough but obviously not!
But... sex? that infidelity!
What kind of person shares his penis, albeit casually, with 100 other people?
[This message edited by PollyA at 11:34 PM, May 26th (Monday)]
So you are stating that someone saying "I was able to carry on an affair because "I was compartmentalzing our life together separate from my affair" is not offering up some lame excuse of how they were able to justify their bad behavior.
Offering compartmentalising as an excuse for an affair is as logical as offering the get-away car as an excuse for an armed robbery.
The get-away car did not cause the armed robbery, it was used as a means to commit the armed robbery. In the same way, compartmentalising did not cause the affair, it was used as a means to commit adultery.