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User Topic: One more betrayal.
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Default  Posted: 11:10 AM, May 20th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You may not want to hear this, but here goes. You are not married and he cheated = RUN. Also , the possibility that he got someone pregnant = RUN. You 2 don't have kids together = RUN. If he's worried about her being pregnant, that means he had unprotected sex. Go get checked for STD's. If he has a drinking problem and a cheating problem and possibly a baby daddy ask yourself. Am I willing to go down this road with this man? Trust us. You don't want to marry him and find out a year later it happened again. Then he takes half your shit. You caught it beforehand. Now detach and move on. It's hard and it's gonna take a while but you will be better for it.

Me: BH 34
Her: WW 30
Lived together 5-1/2 years
Married almost 2 years
D-Day 3/17/14
Affair for 8 months with a married man at her job
I don't even know who she is. Maybe never did.
Separated 3/21/14
headed to D

Posts: 67 | Registered: Apr 2014
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Default  Posted: 11:21 AM, May 20th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Detaching from this multi-mess guy is WAY easier than divorcing him when you have a couple of kids, a mortgage and two car payments. Thankfully you found out now. Not fun, but a true blessing in disguise.

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