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JenniMay
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Default  Posted: 9:48 AM, May 19th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think I spend so much time alone these days that I am EXTRA amazed as stupid things people say & do...

This weekend, I was part of a conversation where an acquaintance of mine said something about her ex-husband. The man she was talking to said "Ex-husband? What'd you do?" Then he chuckled an evil little laugh.

It took everything I had not to punch him in the throat. Not really...I'm not a violent person, but JEEZ. Why on earth would he assume SHE did something to make him her ex?

I know. I'm being too sensitive. Luckily, I was in a place where I could just walk away.

I know...some days I wonder why I even come out of my cocoon.


Betrayed after 13 years of marriage.
DDay & Separated - June 2009
Divorced - March 2010


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suckstobeme
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Default  Posted: 11:07 AM, May 19th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The older I get, the more amazed I am at how stupid and insensitive people can be. Even with my great, core group of friends - every once in a while one of them will bust out with some stupid nugget and I'll think, "WTF??"

If I was talking to that guy, I would have turned around and walked without saying another word. He sounds like a chauvinistic douche nozzle, to say the least.


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ExWH - "that one"
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You get what you put in, and people get what they deserve.
Hard as it may be, try to never give the OP any of your power or head space.

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JenniMay
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Default  Posted: 12:30 PM, May 19th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

chauvinistic douche nozzle


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Divorced - March 2010


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nutmegkitty
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Default  Posted: 12:37 PM, May 19th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

that was a really douchey thing to say

I often wonder WTF is wrong with people...do they not THINK before they speak???


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him (NPD Ex)
2 dds
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OW
OC

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"Diamonds aren't a girl's best friend, freedom is."


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 12:45 PM, May 19th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sure they think. People like this think they're hilarious. The more hurtful/provoking/shocking they are, the funnier it is.

Douche nozzles.


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- Carlos Santana


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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 4:26 PM, May 19th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

She should have responded with, "I had to divorce him. He started reminding me of you." Then walked away. Doofus.

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clralb
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Default  Posted: 4:49 PM, May 19th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hah! I was thinking the same thing, Doofus!

I probably would have responded with the first thing that popped into my head, "Her IQ increased."

Then probably have given an even more evil laugh and then snear at the douche.

Hmm. I wonder why I haven't had a date in a while.


"To keep the body in good health is a duty... otherwise we shall not be able to keep our mind strong and clear."
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JenniMay
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Default  Posted: 8:47 AM, May 20th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hmm. I wonder why I haven't had a date in a while

LOL!!!! Me too!


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DDay & Separated - June 2009
Divorced - March 2010


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JenniMay
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Default  Posted: 8:47 AM, May 20th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Doofus and douche nozzle!

LOVE IT!


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Divorced - March 2010


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Default  Posted: 9:26 AM, May 20th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I had one of those moments today too - it was "Bring Your Child to Work" day in my office, and there were like 60 munchkins running around. Someone asked if I was volunteering at any of the events they had set up for the kids, and I said that, no, I'm not really a kid person. And then she said...

"Oh, is that why you're divorced?"

People are idiots. Don't pay them any mind.


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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