FOO came knocking for me last week too karma, with a trip from hyper-critical dad, right in the middle of affair season, while I suffered through walking pneumonia. Sigh. That yoga pose was getting waaaaay uncomfortable. I thought I'd never feel better.
I love this thread, though. I just got POed over a thread about BSes taking "time off" from their families as a result of an affair. I think I reacted because I worry I haven't been the parent I should be this year. It has always seemed true to me that we react to things in others that we dislike/fear, etc about ourselves. So, this is a good reminder.
I hope your Sat is going better!