I swear I kind of want too send him to OW's just so she can fucking put up with his stupid shit.
That's exactly where I would tell him to go when he starts behaving like that.
Do you address it with him? He will continue as long as he feels he can get away with it. Show him that there are consequences for his crappy behavior. Prove to him that you expect better.
You do deserve to be happy and you certainly deserve to be treated well. Every. Single. Day.
ME: 54 BS
HIM: 61 WH
Married: 28 years
in R 3.5 years and it's working but he is putting 200% into it (as he should) to make it right again.
The truth hurts, but I have never seen it cause the pain that lies do.