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User Topic: so many changes
yoshi7268
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Default  Posted: 12:55 AM, May 20th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My mother is dying. She is now under hospice care and its all about pain management until she passes. So very painful.

Mr. Yoshi has been there for me every inch of the way. Not just with my mom but when I need to talk about A related issues he has stepped up to the plate.

He is not the same man that he was even a year ago. He is transparent, honest, tender, just a man that I've never known before. He is truly changing.

He is not perfect but he is trying so hard to do the right things and I feel it. In my gut feel it.

We still have rough times. My heart still aches but I feel more and more each day that he's walking with me. That he's thinking of me first.

Its taking a little getting used to because all of the fear I still have but it sure feels good when he's doing it right.

I pray this lasts


ME-BS-41 WH-45
Married 23 years-together 27
5 beautiful children ages 15-25
Dday1-late June 2011
Dday2-early July 2011
Dday3- early August 2011
Another affair 7 years before.
R going well

Posts: 279 | Registered: May 2012 | From: yoshi7268
RidingHealingRd
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Member # 33867
Default  Posted: 1:39 AM, May 20th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so very sorry for your heart ache and I wish you strength during this extremely difficult time. (((yoshi7268)))

I firmly believe that a person can change if it is in their heart to do so. It certainly appears that your H has committed to becoming a better person. I am glad that he is by your side supporting you, especially during this time of sadness.


[This message edited by RidingHealingRd at 1:40 AM, May 20th (Tuesday)]


ME: 54 BS
HIM: 61 WH
Married: 28 years
D'Day: 10/29/10
in R 4 years and it's working but he is putting 200% into it (as he should) to make it right again.

The truth hurts, but I have never seen it cause the pain that lies do.


Posts: 2122 | Registered: Nov 2011
ItsaClimb
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Member # 37107
Default  Posted: 4:24 AM, May 20th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

{{yoshi7268}} I am so sorry for the pain you are going through.

It is wonderful that your fWS has stepped up and is offering you his love and support.


BS 46
Together 29 yrs, M 25 years
2 daughters 24yo(married with a brand new little daughter) & 19yo
D-Day 18 Aug 2012
6mth EA lead to 4mth PA with CO-W. I found out 8 1/2 yrs later

Posts: 1022 | Registered: Oct 2012
authenticnow
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Member # 16024
Default  Posted: 5:29 AM, May 20th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Yoshi))) I'm sorry about your mom and glad that Mr Yoshi is stepping up the way you need him to.


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


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