Cheating Hurt by Infidelity
Betrayal Wayward Donations lying
Welcome

Forums

Guidelines

Find a Local Counselor

The Healing Library

Media

Contact Us
lies
cover
In Association with Amazon.com
Support
Infidelity -
-
like us on facebook
You are not logged in. Login here or register.
[Register]
Newest Member: KevinTheAsshole (45445)

Divorce/Separation Post Reply     Print Topic    
User Topic: Happy Anniversary to me!
StillLivin
♀ Member
Member # 40229
Default  Posted: 9:26 AM, May 20th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Today is our anniversary and if all goes right, we will be divorced in a month.
Dreamed about him last night. I woke up wanting to send him a shitty text, but I won't.
Asswhole, Happy Anniversary. You're a poor excuse for a husband, a man, and a decent human being! How does it feel to be a complete and utter failure at everything? Awwww still can't find a job without wifey doing your resume! Shocker there you morally bankrupt POS cheatinass fucker. I HATE you!
Like I said, I'm not going to break NC. Besides, he has never once remembered our anniversary without reminding anyway.


I don't need further confirmation of what a fuckwit he is. I already have plenty, thanks very much. -SBB
D: 7/2/2014

Posts: 2342 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: AZ
norabird
♀ Member
Member # 42092
Default  Posted: 10:13 AM, May 20th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Fuck that guy!

(((StillLivin)))


Sit. Feast on your life.

Posts: 4196 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: NYC
SBB
♀ Member
Member # 35229
Default  Posted: 10:27 AM, May 20th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I well remember sitting on my hands through these tidal waves.

Don't give him any of you - not even your anger. Fuck him and the (w)horse he rode in on.

I hope you're OK. The firsts are always the roughest. I'm sorry he invaded your dream. FTG.


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 5619 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
Gemini71
♀ Member
Member # 40115
Default  Posted: 12:37 PM, May 20th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow, you are stronger than I. Our next court date is a week after our 19th Anniversary. I so did not want to still be married at this point. I'll try to follow your example and rant here instead of breaking NC. FTG. Crickets to him.


Edited to correct stupid typos.

Two steps forward and one step backwards, is still progress.


Posts: 1878 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Illinois, USA
SunshineSoul
♀ Member
Member # 43374
Default  Posted: 1:15 PM, May 20th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It is our anniversary today too. 13 years. Not so lucky, I guess. Lol!

Hugs to you! Stay strong, and celebrate getting YOU back. The day has new meaning now. Good luck!


Me = BS, 36
Him = WH, 42
2 beautiful kids: 6yo & 11 month old.
Married since 2001, together since 1998.
Dday = Feb 20, 2014.

It's just not that simple.


Posts: 101 | Registered: May 2014 | From: West Coast
StillLivin
♀ Member
Member # 40229
Default  Posted: 1:21 PM, May 20th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you everybody!
The wave has passed. Texted a friend, that helped. Then went outside and used all that anger and hurt energy to get some yard work done.
Watered my garden, them my flower pots and rose bushes. Then I cleaned off the patio and organized. I grabbed the pruning shears and pruned away. Went for a walk.
Whew, ok. I think I can handle the rest of the day.
FTG. He never deserved me anyway! Asswhole and whore deserve each other and I hope they have many miserable years together.


ETA: Sunshine, I'm sorry. Your DD is so recent, I know this has to really be rough on you today!
Lots and lots of hugs.
(((Sunshine)))

[This message edited by StillLivin at 1:22 PM, May 20th (Tuesday)]


I don't need further confirmation of what a fuckwit he is. I already have plenty, thanks very much. -SBB
D: 7/2/2014

Posts: 2342 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: AZ
Topic Posts: 6

Return to Forum: Divorce/Separation Post Reply to this Topic
adultry
Go to :
madness  
© 2002 - 2014 SurvivingInfidelity.com. All Rights Reserved.