Then we are supposed to go to the next session to decide if we are going to stay and work things out or not.
I gave up... I am checking out. Everyone, stay good and I will check on here once in a while. God Bless you, because God didn't bless me...
Don't lose hope, you will be fine, one way or another. One step at a time.
Even if you let go of the outcome and move on, there are plenty of forums here for every aspect of your life. I for one respect the break, but come back when you feel up to it friend.
But more than that, divorce is a significant emotional event in that person's life. You just don't sign the papers and skip merrily off to the daisys. Well maybe for a day or so until the divorce parties die down. But there are a lot of stages to process, not just the divorce but afterwards. A good piece of dating advice is don't date anyone until they've had their papers for a year, so that gives you an idea of the recuperation time. That and then you're still processing the infidelity. You need to do some personal work to make sure you don't fall into the same kind of a relationship a second time.
So take care during your break, take as little or as long as you need, we'll be here if needed.