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User Topic: Taking a Break
LostSamurai
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Member # 41347
Default  Posted: 4:44 PM, May 20th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

After MC today, I am going to take a break on the forums. The next thing we are supposed to do is sit down and talk to each others as friends and say what we want out a marriage...

Then we are supposed to go to the next session to decide if we are going to stay and work things out or not.

I gave up... I am checking out. Everyone, stay good and I will check on here once in a while. God Bless you, because God didn't bless me...


I am now nothing by a mere Ronin.

Posts: 1036 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: Maryland
ButterflyGirl
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Member # 38377
Default  Posted: 4:47 PM, May 20th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good Luck LS. Maybe God is closing a door. Try looking for a window..

Sending strength..


xBW~ 35
Two of the most darling sons ~ 10 and 7

Posts: 2108 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Florida, USA
Truly
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Member # 40715
Default  Posted: 8:21 PM, May 20th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh I feel your pain. Sending you (((((hugs))))) and strength.

Don't lose hope, you will be fine, one way or another. One step at a time.


There are dark shadows on the earth, but its lights are stronger in the contrast.
Charles Dickens


Posts: 257 | Registered: Sep 2013
Ostrich80
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Default  Posted: 8:35 PM, May 20th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wishing you success and happiness in whatever path you choose LS. Don't be a stranger


BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????

Posts: 4932 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: midwest
5454real
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Member # 37455
Default  Posted: 9:30 PM, May 20th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

LS, Sending strength for your endeavors. I'll keep practicing the Batman dance for *that* day brother.


BH 51, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 20(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 2726 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
yearsofpain25
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Member # 42012
Default  Posted: 9:40 PM, May 20th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My thoughts are with you LS. But don't become a stranger. You're thoughts and opinions are respected around here.

Even if you let go of the outcome and move on, there are plenty of forums here for every aspect of your life. I for one respect the break, but come back when you feel up to it friend.

yop


25 years and counting of pain caused by mother's infidelity. Aftermath: 1 deceased sibling, 1 lost family, 3 lost souls.
"Each new day I am just glad to be alive and have survived all that I did." Ashland13

Posts: 1951 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Northeast US
oldtimer97
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Default  Posted: 11:09 PM, May 20th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

As an oldtimer here, hence the name hehe, I certainly understand how overwhelming it is and a break is good for all of us. That said, it sounds like you may choose divorce and I would encourage you to supplement your support system with the folks in Divorce/Separation...where else can you find 24/7 friends going through it.

But more than that, divorce is a significant emotional event in that person's life. You just don't sign the papers and skip merrily off to the daisys. Well maybe for a day or so until the divorce parties die down. But there are a lot of stages to process, not just the divorce but afterwards. A good piece of dating advice is don't date anyone until they've had their papers for a year, so that gives you an idea of the recuperation time. That and then you're still processing the infidelity. You need to do some personal work to make sure you don't fall into the same kind of a relationship a second time.

So take care during your break, take as little or as long as you need, we'll be here if needed.


FWIW, because of brain damage, I write in storyteller form, so hardly any short posts from me & bad eyesight gives me a 50% edit rate..Apologies in advance!

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