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User Topic: New here. Papers being served today
Pudding
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Default  Posted: 6:27 AM, May 21st (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm new on this forum having spent 2 years in JFO and R only to discover it was a waste of time, as they were still exchanging lovey dovey emails and who knows what else.

The lawyer sent the letter last night, so he should receive it when he gets home tonight. I have confronted him and told him and now of course he's shocked and upset and is beginning to do the work he should have done years ago. Too damn late,

Will be posting more here, when I get myself straight.


Posts: 266 | Registered: Oct 2012 | From: UK
nekorb
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Default  Posted: 6:51 AM, May 21st (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Welcome, Pudding.

I'm sorry you need to be here and that R didn't go as it should have.

Let us know how we can help!

(((Hugs)))


Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 aka CAT- colossal asshat; Married 22 years
D-day: July 17, 2013, with TT to follow
D filed July 16, 2014, 363 days later than I should have
Psalms 27:14
Wait for The Lord; be strong and take heart. Wait for the Lord.

Posts: 1838 | Registered: Aug 2013
Gemini71
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Default  Posted: 7:50 AM, May 21st (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Welcome to this new section of the roller coaster that no one ever wants to ride. I view D as taking back control of your life. M and R both take two people to work. We all know what it's like trying to do it by yourself.

Some things you should be aware of now that you've filed.

1. According to a WS, it is now all your fault for giving up. Never mind the A or broken NC.
2. It is no longer about emotions. D is a business deal and you need to protect yourself.
3. We are all here to support you. While everyone's story is unique, odds are the someone somewhere can relate.

((Pudding))


Edited to correct stupid typos.

Two steps forward and one step backwards, is still progress.


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Chrysalis123
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Default  Posted: 8:45 AM, May 21st (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Welcome Pudding


Donít get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well.†

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one2ndchance
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Default  Posted: 12:18 PM, May 21st (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Because you've spent 2 years working on and hoping the marriage could be salvaged, he's been confident that you would always be around. Now that you've shown him you're done, you're going to see an array of tactics from him.

Fasten your seat belt because the roller coaster ride is about to get even wilder. How you tolerate the ride depends on your stamina and strength of your decision.


Me: BW 59
Him: STBXWH 61
Married: 25 years
DDay1: 2/2002; DDay2: 6/2012
Gave him his second chance and he blew it.
Divorcing

Posts: 479 | Registered: May 2007 | From: California
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