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User Topic: Hurting like hell right now
frigidfire86
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Default  Posted: 10:57 AM, May 21st (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Had my fallopian tubes removed yesterday. I'm in Germany amd figured there would be differences between German and US health care. I wasn't expecting that the pain med they would give me after surgery would be Tylenol. Like that's supposed to help. I literally have tears streaming down my face and asked for something stronger for pain. They gave me 800mg Motrin. What. The. Fuck. Do the doctors here not realize that I WAS CUT OPEN?! I would very much like to not feel like I'm dying. I've never wanted so badly to be in the US.


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Him: 29
Married 8 years
Daughter, 7 yrs old
D-Day: 05/08/2011

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Pentup
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Default  Posted: 11:02 AM, May 21st (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Keep asking for something stronger!


Me- BS
Him- FWS (I hope- F)

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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 11:06 AM, May 21st (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((frigid)))))

I hope they give you something that will help. Sending you hugs and healing mojo.


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Aubrie
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Default  Posted: 11:08 AM, May 21st (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh my gosh, that's so wrong.

I'm so sorry you're hurting.

(((((ff))))


Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne


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itainteasy
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Default  Posted: 11:25 AM, May 21st (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh no....that's not nearly enough to make you comfortable after SURGERY!

I wouldn't even get relief from menstrual cramps with an 800mg ibuprofen.

Start asking for pain meds by name. Vicodin, or Lortab, or Demerol. Dilaudid.

Dilaudid is a good one. I had dilaudid through IV injection after my surgery last year.


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norabird
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Default  Posted: 11:53 AM, May 21st (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

ouch! I hope you can get real pain meds to cope.


Sit. Feast on your life.

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frigidfire86
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Default  Posted: 12:47 AM, May 22nd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I managed to get Toradol last night but it still wasn't enough. I hope they release me early enough to make it to the on post clinic before it closes, otherwise I will have to wait until Tuesday to get pain meds. I don't think I can make it that long.

[This message edited by frigidfire86 at 12:50 AM, May 22nd (Thursday)]


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absolut
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Default  Posted: 1:18 AM, May 22nd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I don't know why you're there or what the story is, but methinks you need to get resourceful.

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DeadMumWalking
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Default  Posted: 2:07 AM, May 22nd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow, fuck that!

I live in Switzerland, and after my 14 yo son was operated on for appendicitis, he was given MORPHINE. Not 'kiddie tylenol'.

W. T. F.

((((ff))))


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HeartStings
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Default  Posted: 5:34 AM, May 22nd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Don't wait for them to "release" you! If you're ambulatory, get the hell out of there and go to the clinic. BTDT.

Sorry you're hurting.


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frigidfire86
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Default  Posted: 11:58 AM, May 22nd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I was released from the hospital this morning and immediately went to the clinic on post. They gave me some hydrocodone and it has helped immensely. Now I just have to figure out how to shower without hurting myself.


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Daughter, 7 yrs old
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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 2:03 PM, May 22nd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so glad the clinic was able to give you something to help with the pain. Sending healing mojo.

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 2:05 PM, May 22nd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((frigidfire)))) Sending you healing thoughts, hon.


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heartbroken_kk
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Default  Posted: 3:35 PM, May 22nd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((frigidfire)))

Sending healing vibes and hopes the hydrocodone helps you a lot. Do take a stool softener to go with that... it can shut down your GI and make things worse.


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