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Unagie
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Default  Posted: 9:07 PM, May 21st (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So I got a second opinion since I was not secure in what my first gyn told me about my constant bleeding. I felt secure as soon as I walked I to this place, totally different vibe. She did a sonogram on the spot and wants me to get an mri done. Now heres the part that makes me nervous, I have a fibroid the size of the palm of your hand on the outside of my uterus. She also wants the mri because the sonogram isnt giving her enouvh info for a reason for the bleeding. (I have been bleeding since January stopped for the month of march due to being placed on progesterone but started again 3-4 weeks while on the meds). So now she says that she needs to go in and check the fibroid and do a biopsy to see if the cells are abnormal. She said she also wants to go in and "clear" my uterus and see if there's anything abnormal. Im pretty sure im gonna be put under and she said it can be painful after the procedure is over....I'm just worried about it all.


Heartbroken madhatter trying to rebuild

No longer together

Do not let others be your reference for who you see in the mirror.

Stop allowing people to hurt you, because you don't love you enough to walk away.


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purplejacket4
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Default  Posted: 9:14 PM, May 21st (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's fairly routine to do surgery for painful bleeding fibroids if the hormones don't calm everything down.


Me: BS 45
Her: fWS 48 (same sex partner)
Together: 18 years now (both MDs)
OW: meh so what 40s PhD
DD1: 10/30/11EA; DD2: 11/10/11 Had ONS; TT until 12/26/11; broke NC 6/12; NC again 7/12; R-ish

Posts: 2081 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Great Southwest
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 10:18 PM, May 21st (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Unagie)))) I'm so glad you went for a second opinion, hon. It can be scary to undergo these kinds of procedures. Do you have a good support system to help you through all this?


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


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painpaingoaway
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Default  Posted: 7:08 AM, May 22nd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Glad you are in good hands sweetie. 'Lady problems' are a bummer. Hang in there.


me BS female 56/him WS 59
Married 33 years
D-day July 09/he gave me his slut's STD
Watch my movie: "My wayward husband's adventures in STD land":
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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 7:34 AM, May 22nd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Unagie)))

I'm glad you found a trustworthy dr to give you a 2nd opinion. Please take it easy afterwards. Sending you good thoughts and mojo.


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JanaGreen
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Default  Posted: 8:06 AM, May 22nd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

By "clear your uterus" does she mean a D&C? I've had two and it's not like a picnic in the park, but the recovery isn't too bad. Not as bad as I expected. I can't speak to the fibroid issue. ((HUGS)) I hope everything goes well!


We're both in our 30s. One awesome 4-year-old daughter.

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imagoodwitch
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Default  Posted: 10:33 AM, May 22nd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm glad you went and got a second opinion.

Nothing makes me madder than when a woman goes to the Dr. for what I would call excessive (months on end) bleeding and they tell her it's "Normal".

Normal is a setting on the dryer!

Anyhoo, if the fibroid is on the outside, cleaning out the inside will not work, it will just grow back.

Mine was the size of a nice grapefruit, it was inside and outside. My Gyn told me that he could clean it out via ablation but it would grow back.

I had a hysterectomy.

Good luck, keep us posted.


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Don't keep dancing with the Devil and wonder why you are still in Hell.

It's all shits and giggles until someone giggles and shits.


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Unagie
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Default  Posted: 3:01 PM, May 22nd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I will definitely keep you updated. Was told I should only be out of commission for 2 days. I just want to be well again ya know?


Heartbroken madhatter trying to rebuild

No longer together

Do not let others be your reference for who you see in the mirror.

Stop allowing people to hurt you, because you don't love you enough to walk away.


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Wayflost
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Default  Posted: 3:08 PM, May 22nd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((Unagie))

You will be well again! We are all pulling for you, and from the sound of it you have a competent new OBGYN.


Me: WW
Him: BH (totalheartbreak)
Both: 30s

Appalled by my actions, and the choice to set off several atomic bombs in my life.


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tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 5:47 PM, May 22nd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Unagie)))
I had something similar that progressively got worse the older I got, about 2 years after I had my second child, I was done, D&C's didn't work, Ablation didn't work, hormones didn't work.

I was done using the parts so out they came. Honestly none of it was horrible to recover from. Even the hysterectomy. Make sure she gives you good pain meds, and treat yourself like a queen.


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
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