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Default  Posted: 9:16 PM, May 23rd (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


I am sorry that you had to endure this, as well

Me: FBW/30 Him: FWH/33 The kidlets: DS13, DS10, and DD8 The hounds: Four Shih Tzu's
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Clothed in strength and dignity, with nothing to fear, she smiles when she thinks about the future.~Proverbs 31:25

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Default  Posted: 1:48 PM, May 24th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


No words right now, just hugs!

I need not suffer in silence while I can still moan, whimper and complain.

If this isn't what I consider soulmate crap, I don't know what is.

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Default  Posted: 5:26 PM, May 24th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me: BW-44
Him: XWH-44
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling

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Default  Posted: 9:07 AM, May 25th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry. Give little Abby a big hug from me. Make sure she fully understands that none of it was her fault. NONE of it.

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D-day August 27, 2012
3 kids and 2 dogs

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Default  Posted: 8:29 AM, May 27th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you to all of the responders. It's so amazing to have the support of such wonderful people.

I'm feeling much better. I've been staying away from their facebook pages and trying to curb thoughts of them before they get fixed in my mind. Had an awesome weekend with SO and his kids (and a brief moment of peace amid the chaos) so I'm feeling very centered at the moment.

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Default  Posted: 8:38 AM, May 27th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


I can't imagine all that you endured...I'm so very sorry.

You are a survivor for sure.

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.

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Default  Posted: 2:34 PM, May 27th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

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