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aero1122
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Member # 41575
Default  Posted: 9:47 AM, May 24th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Almost 6 months from d-day and still obsessing and hurting so much. I have good days then very bad days. The roller coaster is killing me.
Time time time...i wish it would hurry up


Me-35
WH-36
Together 18 years
Married 7 years
2 kids
D-day 12-7-13
Both currently in counseling
Trying to R

I am a warrior!
I will survive and thrive!


Posts: 103 | Registered: Dec 2013
SisterMilkshake
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Member # 30024
Default  Posted: 9:48 AM, May 24th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((aero))) That is pretty normal to be feeling this way at 6 months post d-day. Is your WH able to comfort you?


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


Posts: 9952 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
HurtinginSoCal
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Member # 41492
Default  Posted: 9:57 AM, May 24th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm exactly where you are... I just want off the roller coaster and to have woken to it all have been a very bad dream...


Me- BW 43
Him- WH 43
Married 18 years, 3 kids
DDay - 11/13/13, eve of our oldest daughter's 16th bday

Posts: 49 | Registered: Nov 2013
aero1122
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Member # 41575
Default  Posted: 11:42 AM, May 24th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He is comforting me and being very supportive and continually apologizing for what he has done to me and our relationship. I know it takes time but I just hate the way I am feeling.


Me-35
WH-36
Together 18 years
Married 7 years
2 kids
D-day 12-7-13
Both currently in counseling
Trying to R

I am a warrior!
I will survive and thrive!


Posts: 103 | Registered: Dec 2013
Jrazz
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Member # 31349
Default  Posted: 11:44 AM, May 24th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The first year is really tough. Even though feelings like happiness and security seem out of reach, know that they WILL come back. I promise.

(((aero1122)))


"Sometimes people are mean, and sometimes things will be hard. One of your jobs is to try and make sure that that never makes you mean and hard, too." Cord Jefferson's Mom

Posts: 18276 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
4everfaithful83
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Member # 41761
Default  Posted: 5:00 PM, May 24th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I hear you aero1122! We all feel that way at some point!

I'm almost at my one year DDAY antiversary, and I just wanted to let you know that it does get better!!

I still struggle with things (as to be expected) But it does get better. Just take it one day at a time. Don't worry about tomorrow, next week or next month! Just take it one day at a time. Hold on! And keep posting! We are here for you.


Always know if the juice is worth the squeeze...

ME: 31
WBF: 27
Together 7 years
1 doggie
DDay: June 24, 2013
IN R...


Posts: 565 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: Pennsylvania
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