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aero1122
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Member # 41575
Default  Posted: 9:47 AM, May 24th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Almost 6 months from d-day and still obsessing and hurting so much. I have good days then very bad days. The roller coaster is killing me.
Time time time...i wish it would hurry up


Me-35
WH-36
Together 18 years
Married 7 years
2 kids 14yo & 2yo
D-day 12-7-13
Both currently in counseling
Trying to R

I am a warrior!
I will survive and thrive!


Posts: 95 | Registered: Dec 2013
SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 9:48 AM, May 24th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((aero))) That is pretty normal to be feeling this way at 6 months post d-day. Is your WH able to comfort you?


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


Posts: 9403 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
HurtinginSoCal
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Member # 41492
Default  Posted: 9:57 AM, May 24th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm exactly where you are... I just want off the roller coaster and to have woken to it all have been a very bad dream...


Me- BW 43
Him- WH 43
Married 18 years, 3 kids
DDay - 11/13/13, eve of our oldest daughter's 16th bday

Posts: 43 | Registered: Nov 2013
aero1122
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Member # 41575
Default  Posted: 11:42 AM, May 24th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He is comforting me and being very supportive and continually apologizing for what he has done to me and our relationship. I know it takes time but I just hate the way I am feeling.


Me-35
WH-36
Together 18 years
Married 7 years
2 kids 14yo & 2yo
D-day 12-7-13
Both currently in counseling
Trying to R

I am a warrior!
I will survive and thrive!


Posts: 95 | Registered: Dec 2013
Jrazz
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Member # 31349
Default  Posted: 11:44 AM, May 24th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The first year is really tough. Even though feelings like happiness and security seem out of reach, know that they WILL come back. I promise.

(((aero1122)))


We are what we repeatedly do, excellence, then is not an act but a habit. - Aristotle

Posts: 16332 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
4everfaithful83
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Member # 41761
Default  Posted: 5:00 PM, May 24th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I hear you aero1122! We all feel that way at some point!

I'm almost at my one year DDAY antiversary, and I just wanted to let you know that it does get better!!

I still struggle with things (as to be expected) But it does get better. Just take it one day at a time. Don't worry about tomorrow, next week or next month! Just take it one day at a time. Hold on! And keep posting! We are here for you.


Always know if the juice is worth the squeeze...

ME: 31
WBF: 27
Together 7 years
1 doggie
DDay: June 24, 2013
IN R...


Posts: 565 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: Pennsylvania
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