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User Topic: fare thee well (just for a bit)
LA44
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Default  Posted: 8:18 PM, May 24th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well, we are off to Ireland! I am packing my green, some comfy walking shoes and a rain jacket! This is a company-earned trip. I am proud of my H for this achievement. I recall after D-Day me telling him it was time to step up. As a H, a dad and a business owner. This is nothing but proof that he did that. Can't fake this!

Anyway, we will be around lots of women who like to hug and I am reminded to watch myself watching him (bionic's comment re: evaluating as per brokensmile's thread). I have no doubt that at least a couple of these gals know of the A which of course makes me uncomfortable. The AP will not be there thank goodness.

Pretty sure I won't be indulging in Guinness. Maybe I will take to whiskey....or maybe not!

So, if you don't hear from me for a couple weeks, you now know why. I am going to miss you guys! And man, am I going to miss my kids.

LA


Me: 44
He: 47 WH
Married: 15 years
D Day: December 2012
Affair: Fall 2009 - Dec. 2011
R is not linear

Posts: 2109 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Canada, eh
4everfaithful83
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Default  Posted: 8:26 PM, May 24th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome! I've always wanted to go to Ireland! I hear its gorgeous there!

I hope you and your H have a wonderful time! Enjoy!


Always know if the juice is worth the squeeze...

ME: 31
WBF: 27
Together 7 years
1 doggie
DDay: June 24, 2013
IN R...


Posts: 565 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: Pennsylvania
SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 8:38 PM, May 24th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations Mr.LA44! Godspeed to you both. Hope you have a wonderful time and make amazing memories.

We will be here waiting to hear all about it!


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


Posts: 9404 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 8:46 PM, May 24th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Enjoy your trip.


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


Posts: 51511 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
LA44
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Default  Posted: 8:50 PM, May 24th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks all. I am nervous about going overseas and my eldest has had a few tears. Makes it hard to get excited....but I think once I get there I will be okay. Get to see my parents in between flights so that is something I am really looking forward too!


Me: 44
He: 47 WH
Married: 15 years
D Day: December 2012
Affair: Fall 2009 - Dec. 2011
R is not linear

Posts: 2109 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Canada, eh
brokensmile322
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Default  Posted: 8:51 PM, May 24th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

First of all, LA, that sounds wonderful! Will you kiss the Blarney stone? Enjoy yourself and make lots of memories ! BUT-

OMG! Your post about the other women hugging. I was just going to post about hugging. Is this a normal business procedure? I am trying to wrap my head around it. I cannot believe you mentioned it. And the evaluating----I DO THE EXACT SAME THING AS YOU AND BIONIC GAL!

I could go on and on but I don't want to T/J your thread!

Be safe!


Me BS 42 Him WS 44
OW Coworker DDay April 7, 2012
EA on a slippery slope...

When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves. ~Viktor Frankl

"When you are happy, you can forgive a great deal."


Posts: 1415 | Registered: Jun 2012
Rebreather
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Default  Posted: 9:31 PM, May 24th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OMG! Have so much fun!! Drink the Guinness!! And the whiskey. It'"s all good, baby!


Me BS
Him WH
2 ddays in '07
Recovering.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi

Posts: 6306 | Registered: Jan 2011
blakesteele
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Default  Posted: 9:34 PM, May 24th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Way to step up MR LA44!!

Safe travels.

Peace


ME: 42 BH, I don't PM female members
SHE: 38 EA
Married: 15 years
Together: 17 years
D/Day 9-10-12
NC: 10-25-12
NC: Broken early November 2012, OM not respond
2 girls; 7 and 10
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Posts: 3411 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Central Missouri
ItsaClimb
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Default  Posted: 8:44 AM, May 25th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Have a wonderful time LA44. Ireland is amazing. We spent some time there in 2011. (if you're interested I have a blog at http://richardsonseurope2011.blogspot.com/ the Ireland part starts at Day 15) The Irish are such amazingly friendly people.

Enjoy every minute!


BS 46
Together 29 yrs, M 25 years
2 daughters 24yo(married with a brand new little daughter) & 19yo
D-Day 18 Aug 2012
6mth EA lead to 4mth PA with CO-W. I found out 8 1/2 yrs later

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devasted30
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Default  Posted: 11:06 AM, May 25th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

LA44 - have an amazing time. Though you can't help but doing so because Ireland is wonderful. Irish Coffee, I got hooked on it the first time I went and have taken to drinking it every time I'm there. And a lot of times when I'm not here too. It'saclimb is right, the people are incredibly friendly. Can't do enough for you. Have great time and enjoy yourselves. It's a nice time time of the year to be there too. The greenery is fabulous. Oh how I envy you this trip. Enjoy!!!

Posts: 923 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Ontario, Canada
AML04
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Default  Posted: 11:42 AM, May 25th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hope you have a fantastic time!!!


Me-BS Him-WH DS 5/12
T-13 M-9
DDay 5/26/13, TT through 8/13
2.5 yr EA w/co-worker, PA 12/12 to 4/13.
Hopeful for R

Posts: 829 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: MA
Joanh
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Default  Posted: 7:52 PM, May 25th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Enjoy the experience. Let it be a beautiful time of seeing new.


BH 39
WW 43
D day November 9, 2012
3 children 22, 8, 6
Just....

Posts: 387 | Registered: Apr 2013
LA44
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Default  Posted: 8:33 PM, May 25th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

@brokensmile, yes they are taking us out early this week to kiss the stone. I will kiss it for all of you too! And yeah...hugging women...I don't get it. We didn't do this when I was working in Corp way back when.

ItsaClimb, wow! Thanks. I will be sure to check out your blog.

Thank you all for your well wishes. And yes, Joanh....a time for seeing new.

Have a good couple weeks, friends. Be true


Me: 44
He: 47 WH
Married: 15 years
D Day: December 2012
Affair: Fall 2009 - Dec. 2011
R is not linear

Posts: 2109 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Canada, eh
LA44
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Default  Posted: 8:33 PM, May 25th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

oops! double post

[This message edited by LA44 at 8:54 PM, May 25th (Sunday)]


Me: 44
He: 47 WH
Married: 15 years
D Day: December 2012
Affair: Fall 2009 - Dec. 2011
R is not linear

Posts: 2109 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Canada, eh
hopefull77
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Default  Posted: 10:34 PM, May 25th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just seeing this...have a wonderful time!


me-BS
him-WS
3 adult children 1D 2S
married-1977
LTA 09-2010 - 11-2012
D-day - 11-11-2012
status - reconciling and very hopeful
"Let Go of Control; Let God's Life Flow" ...Richard Rohr



Posts: 373 | Registered: Apr 2014 | From: sunny california
OnAnIsland
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Default  Posted: 2:56 PM, May 26th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Have a wonderful time. it should be a great time of the year for your visit. live each moment in the present.


D-day: Christmas 2011
D-day 2: 3/28/2013

Married for over 15 years
2 beautiful boys in elementary school

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DixieD
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Default  Posted: 3:11 PM, May 26th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You are likely well on your way by now and will not see this, but I wanted to send best wishes for a fun adventure and safe travels. Enjoy yourself.


Growing forward

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LA44
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Default  Posted: 12:05 AM, May 27th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Need luck of the Irish! Plane issues! Spending night @ hotel. We will get there eventually. Thanks for your kind wishes.


Me: 44
He: 47 WH
Married: 15 years
D Day: December 2012
Affair: Fall 2009 - Dec. 2011
R is not linear

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