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User Topic: Clean Conscience
knockeddown
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Member # 43090
Default  Posted: 3:36 AM, May 26th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Two night ago, I had the opportunity to have a revenge affair with a gorgeous woman. Today I can look myself in the mirror and know that I did not stoop to that level---even though I was sooooo tempted.

Ah, the little successes!


Me- BS 27 Always faithful
Her- WS 28
2 mo.? PA
Married 5 years (lived together 9)
2-year-old daughter
DDay-3/15/2014
Separated - living apart

Posts: 103 | Registered: Apr 2014 | From: United States
bigskyblues
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Member # 36759
Default  Posted: 5:33 AM, May 26th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good Man!

The high road has a lot of bumps in it but it is still the best road to a better life!

Wish you the best!

BSB


BH 50s
xWW 50s

Dday1 7-2012
Dday2 8-2012
Divorce 9-2012

4 kids all adults.

Married 22+ years.

I have moved on and life is good!


Posts: 139 | Registered: Sep 2012
SpecialK
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Member # 42372
Default  Posted: 1:34 PM, May 26th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Kudo's to you for making the right decision. It's nice to be able to look at yourself in a mirror and respect what you see, isn't it?

Posts: 183 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: Florida
Uhtred
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Member # 40392
Default  Posted: 2:51 PM, May 26th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have entertained that idea on many occasions and had the chance to do so. I'm glad I took the straight and narrow. Good for you for controlling yourself. It's a really hard thing to do considering our circumstances especially when your give a damn is busted.


Me: BH 32years old DDay 4-29-13
Her: WW 33 years old
“Yet each man kills the thing he loves
By each let this be heard
Some do it with a bitter look
Some with a flattering word
The coward does it with a kiss
The brave man with a sword”

Posts: 535 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Houston, Texas
Skan
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Member # 35812
Default  Posted: 5:13 PM, May 26th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

And I'll bet it wasn't even a blip on your radar. Why? Because YOU are an honorable man who takes his vows seriously. (((hugs)))


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



Posts: 4550 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
LeftOutintheCold
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Default  Posted: 5:57 PM, May 26th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Way to go!!


Me - 42
WH - 40
Dday - 3/6/14
Married 5yrs, together over 10
Status - still separated

Posts: 323 | Registered: Mar 2014
brkn_heartd
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Member # 30396
Default  Posted: 9:04 PM, May 26th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great job. Isn't it nice to know you can hold your head up high?


Me-50 BS
Him 57-WS
Married 30 yrs, together 33
Affair Aug-Dec 09
official D-12/14/09
broke NC 1/31/10
second D 3/19/10

Posts: 1529 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Northwesten US
FrmrBH80124
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Member # 42967
Default  Posted: 9:21 AM, May 27th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

KD,

Excellent! I'm glad you didn't cross any lines. You would have regretted that decision one day.


ME - BH 45
Her - XWS 30
D - April 2010 - never looked back and good riddance.
Happily remarried!

Though much is taken, much abides; and though we are not now that strength which in old days
moved earth and heaven, that which we are, we are


Posts: 94 | Registered: Apr 2014
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