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User Topic: Dad of the year is at it again - vent
fraeuken
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Default  Posted: 1:55 PM, May 26th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

XH is truly the gift that keeps on giving.

Mr."I am so rich, I stay at Four Seasons only, I am building a 1.5 million $$$ home in one of the most expensive counties in the US" informed DD16 that he is not planning to pay her annual college tuition that was agreed upon in our parental agreement but that she should take out student loans because they are 'free money' and then later he would help her pay the money back. Sure, you will...

Mr."I am so concerned about my children, I am the fun dad they want to be with all the time and I will do anything and everything for my kids" totally forgot to inform DDs and me that he actually is traveling quite a bit these days so I will basically have DDs for 4 weeks straight leading up to 3 weeks of vacation in Europe I am taking the girls on. He is very nonchalant about not seeing his beloved DDs for almost 2 months because after all, he will take them on a 12 day trip to the lake house in July. But after that I need to take them again because him and Sparkly Panties need to get ready for arrival of their love child.

It's sad for DDs. They even commented last week on how they can't understand why their father is so indifferent about whether he sees them or not. Vent over. Off to the beach...


Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 2:27 PM, May 26th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((DDs))))


You can call me NIK

"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you."
-Walt Whitman


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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 4:46 PM, May 26th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((DDs)))


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Cookie7088
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Default  Posted: 5:02 PM, May 26th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He is very nonchalant about not seeing his beloved DDs for almost 2 months because after all, he will take them on a 12 day trip to the lake house in July. But after that I need to take them again because him and Sparkly Panties need to get ready for arrival of their love child.

And this is why he will wonder when the times comes to walk them down the isle at the wedding....and they ask someone else to have that honor...

"In order to give them away, they have to have kept and cared for them first!"


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PurpleRose
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Default  Posted: 6:29 PM, May 26th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Total Dooosh.

I don't even try to understand how a father can abandon his children anymore.


divorced the Dooosh
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even if you find your voice,
sometimes it does not matter anymore,
when you speak to a man who is deaf by choice.
~dodinsky

Posts: 3631 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: Happyville
PhoenixRisen
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Default  Posted: 9:28 PM, May 26th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He is an ass...
My thoughts run more towards getting tuition by hitting his ego, something like DD mentioning to him, that she is sorry he is struggling financially since he can't pay tuition. When he denies that and points our his new home, lake house, BMW, horse, diamond cuff links etc... She can pull one of those look-of-pity-faces and nod. Then later that day email him grocery coupons!

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fraeuken
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Default  Posted: 12:40 AM, May 27th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

PhoenixRisen, you are giving me some ideas...


Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.

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Catwoman
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Default  Posted: 4:22 AM, May 27th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

If your decree states that he is to pay X amount towards tuition, you can take him to court for contempt if he doesn't pay it. I would.

Cat


FBS: Married 20 years, 2 daughters 25 and 22. Divorced by the grace of GOD.
D-Days: 2/23/93; 10/11/97; 3/5/03
Ex & OW Broke up 12-10
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