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Ashland13
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Default  Posted: 5:51 PM, May 26th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Begins tomorrow.

The house closed last week.

New apartment for five months.

Baby is eight months old.

Time keeps moving on, whether I am ready or not.

Here we go.

Door #2. What is the next chapter?


Ashland 13

A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess


Posts: 2134 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: New England
StillLivin
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Default  Posted: 5:57 PM, May 26th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Healing and loving yourself!
Regaining who you were is a great way to head down this road.
Good luck in court, sending the MOJO to you!
(((Ashland13)))


I don't need further confirmation of what a fuckwit he is. I already have plenty, thanks very much. -SBB
D: 7/2/2014

Posts: 2141 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: AZ
devistatedmom
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Default  Posted: 6:24 PM, May 26th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Next chapter is whatever you want it to be.

You can do it Ash! I'll be thinking of you!!!!


BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.

WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.


Posts: 5363 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Canada
HoldFast
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Default  Posted: 6:30 PM, May 26th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending you court mojo. Be strong. You are strong. You've got this, and we've got your back.

Posts: 26 | Registered: May 2014
Chrysalis123
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Default  Posted: 8:32 PM, May 26th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I love your attitude. It is door #2 and I bet it will be fantastic.


Donít get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well.†

Posts: 2605 | Registered: Jan 2010
dmari
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Default  Posted: 9:07 PM, May 26th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending you all my positive thoughts tomorrow!! I'm so proud of how far you have come!! And your next chapter is going to be off the charts AMAZING!! Go for it!


Me (BS): 42 Children: DD 18, DS 15
Mediation date: 7/10/14 and 7/22/14
Final final court date: Oct 2014

Posts: 2113 | Registered: Oct 2012
Vulcanized
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Default  Posted: 9:17 PM, May 26th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

GL, tomorrow.

Make sure you look like a million bucks.

Next chapter: you are free of a JAMF (jive ass m-f'er).


Me: MH 40s; Him: MH 40s (I had RA)
OW: 30s, moron; one of many
M: 8 yrs
3/13: D'd
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Everything is as it should be.

Posts: 727 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Vulcania
Elaine2012
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Default  Posted: 9:28 PM, May 26th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending mojo! Just trust that eventually it will be over.


Me- 53
WH- 57
Divorced - May 22, 2014
Dday - Blindsided July 2012
Married 35 years
4 adult DD's, 2 SIL, 3 grandchildren

Posts: 285 | Registered: Jul 2012
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 11:13 PM, May 26th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending you mojo, Ashland!


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


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Rainbows
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Default  Posted: 1:41 AM, May 27th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You've got this!

Sending you light.

(((Ashland)))


There is always a rainbow after every storm.

Posts: 388 | Registered: May 2013 | From: California
yearsofpain25
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Default  Posted: 5:08 AM, May 27th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good luck today Ash. Thinking of you.


25 years and counting of pain caused by mother's infidelity. Aftermath: 1 deceased sibling, 1 lost family, 3 lost souls.
"Each new day I am just glad to be alive and have survived all that I did." Ashland13

Posts: 1827 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Northeast US
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 6:24 AM, May 27th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending strength, light to expose the truth to the court, and prayers for the judgement to be In yours and the best interests of the children.

SI will be with you in spirit. When you get into court sit, close your eyes and take a deep breath feel us surrounding you, supporting you.

K


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 4839 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
Ashland13
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Default  Posted: 8:41 AM, May 27th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you, everybody.

I think the most I will hear is:

"She is a liar, she is confused, she doesn't know what she is saying." He is saying that in the business world where I live to discredit me and to anyone who still knows both of us. Bah.

I put a washcloth in my bag to symbolize wiping off the mud he will sling.

I will be interested to see if we have to call witnesses and what they will do and say. But there is lots of evidence that he and Ow left behind like a trail in the woods.

I heard a story this weekend of a man who divorced his wife in secret, while still in the house. He forged the papers and then after he had made his exit plan, he mailed them to her, all the while she lived on as usual. Amazing.


Ashland 13

A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess


Posts: 2134 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: New England
devistatedmom
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Default  Posted: 2:24 PM, May 27th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hope it's all gone well Ash. Sorry, got busy last night, and officiating tonight...I'll PM you tomorrow when I'm home again!


BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.

WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.


Posts: 5363 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Canada
still2suspicious
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Default  Posted: 3:48 PM, May 27th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending you strength for court.

Mojo! Mojo!! Mojo!!!


Me: BS
Him: WH
DDay: LTEA

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rainagain
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Default  Posted: 7:42 PM, May 27th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How did it go today?


Now, faith is being sure of what you hope for and certain of what you cannot see. Heb 11:1
I done been through the pain and the sorrow the struggle is nothing but love. Maino
Me: Divorced BS 49
DS22, DD19, DS17

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