Today has been tough, my DS had soccer tryouts that I couldn't attend so WH went alone. No updates, I called, but no answer means he's on the phone with OW. Really? She gets play by play updates and I finally get a text back an hour in.
Then our daughter comes home from friend day with huge side pain, I gave her some TLC ibuprofen and left to my parents, my night away. She was so bad, WH freaking it might be appendix so we decided he take her to urgent care. I found one open, and waited and waited, no updates. I finally texted DD to find out what is going on, and texted WH to tell him I need simple updates, been worried. Of course he was texting OW while waiting. Yes, nothing to report while waiting for room, but I didn't know. So we had a text fight, so mad, got it all off my chest. No I don't feel better, I know it makes us worse off, but I couldn't keep it in.
I know it will take time to get used to not being with kids when important things or emergencies happen, but this was the first. I can't stand his talking and texting OW when with kids. Do you get that feeling, that OP knows more about your kids than you do sometimes?