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bunni972
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Default  Posted: 8:16 PM, May 28th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Do you ever just think it is time to give up and move on? I am having one of those moments this evening. He said something about an incident that happened and I know in my own mind he did not tell me about it and I naturally got upset which made him angry. It's like I'm supposed to just get over it. He said that the particular incident was over two years ago. I guess that means that just because it was years ago then I'm just supposed to not get upset and let it go. Of course this has turned in to a big fight which he drags up what I did that made him stray and everyone thing else he thinks is my fault.
sorry... rant over


ME: BS 40
HIM: FWH 41
2 boys: 20, 17
DDay #1: October 17th 2011 (A w/ co-worker & visit with 2 "working girls"
DDay #2: September 20th 2013(A w/ girl from Craigslist. Had sex multiple times with 2 women he found on Ashley Madison.
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Posts: 97 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: West Frankfort, IL
rachelc
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Default  Posted: 8:44 PM, May 28th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

e drags up what I did that made him stray and everyone thing else he

This right here is the issue. It may indeed be time to give up if he is still justifying his actions..... Thats not remorse


his Ddays: 2/10, 7/11
my Ddays: 1/12, 4/12 broken NC 12/12

me: 48
him: 51
4 kiddos in lower 20's

ôSlide the weight from your shoulders and move forward. You are afraid you might forget, but you never will. You will forgive and remember."


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justinpaintoday
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Default  Posted: 8:50 PM, May 28th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Agreed. That jumped off the post immediately. Certainly not remorse.


I never realized you could be in this much pain and not be dying.

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