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User Topic: I'm itchy
rachelc
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Default  Posted: 5:45 PM, May 29th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Words of Affirmation are now BOTH of our love languages..

I can tell you that we had 28 days of positive interaction - all very loving, intimate and some fun thrown in there too. and one day of a fairly argumentative conversation.... that seems pretty good to me and MC thought so as well.


We have plenty of the good stuff.. Forgiveness? not so much.


his Dday: 2/10
my Ddays: 1/12, 4/12 broken NC 12/12

me (WW/BS): 48
him: (BS/WH)52
4 kiddos in mid 20's

Me: I didn't sign up for this.
Him: you're already in this. All you can do is resign...


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Althea
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Default  Posted: 7:13 AM, May 30th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

But he also says he has passed up many of these events for my sake and he doesn’t want to resent it that he misses out on business because of my need for safety.

This would make me itch too. I think ideally in R, he would be passing up these events for the health of the relationship. No need for resentment because it is a sacrifice for the greater good, kwim? He is still stuck in angry child mode where mean mommy is grounding him.


Taking it one day at a time.

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