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FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 10:51 PM, May 28th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

On xmas eve last year I was walking through the lobby of the swankiest hotel in town to get to the insanely fabulous lounge for traditional cocktails to kick off the holidays.

Passed by a guy and his elderly mom touring the Christmas tree display, which gets more spectacular every year.

Six foot blondie, really quite easy on the eyes, and VERY familiar. I did a double take and nearly said hi, thought I knew him from work, but then I stopped because I realized I didn't know him from anywhere IRL.

Had just seen him a lot on OLD and never thought to contact him because he was just too good looking... so he double takes me back and we move along in the throng, going in opposite directions.

It took me a good fifteen minutes to twig to where I'd seen his face before.

So tonight there's his profile on there, still there, newer pics, him with two absolutely gorgeous grown kids, now he's a grand dad, and he mentions his mom in his profile which he hadn't before.

So I message him and say hey I think I saw you at (swankhotel) on xmas eve, if that was you, kudos for taking good care of your mom blah blah have a nice day bye.

And so he gets back to me and says I look like someone he could feel comfortable with, I gather he's kind of introverted and easygoing, not really a dater.... kind.of.like.me.

tee hee

So I guess we'll see.

Two weeks from 6th Antiversary and the road takes an interesting turn.

(no squee-ing please, I'll let you know if and when that will be appropriate.)

We now return to our regularly scheduled programming.

[This message edited by FaithFool at 10:53 PM, May 28th (Wednesday)]


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17706 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
PurpleRose
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Default  Posted: 10:53 PM, May 28th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well hey now... Looky you girl!


divorced the Dooosh
*****************************
even if you find your voice,
sometimes it does not matter anymore,
when you speak to a man who is deaf by choice.
~dodinsky

Posts: 3631 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: Happyville
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 10:57 PM, May 28th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He has a boat.

(!)


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17706 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
InnerLight
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Default  Posted: 12:18 AM, May 29th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh my,
FFs getting her toe in the dating pool.
She may even get a ride in a boat.

Squee suppression in check!

[This message edited by InnerLight at 12:18 AM, May 29th (Thursday)]


BS, now age 54, d-day 6-2-08, divorced after 17 years M and 20 together. In some ways I have not 'gotten over it'. But I am resilient and have created a good life where I am mostly happy.

Posts: 5903 | Registered: Jun 2008 | From: Rural California
SBB
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Default  Posted: 1:00 AM, May 29th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

WOOWHOO!

My GFs and I will be out and they'll point out all the guys they know from OLD. Some have even dated the same guys they met on OLD. You'd think a city of 4.5m wouldn't have such a small dating pool.


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 5658 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
persevere
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Default  Posted: 1:14 AM, May 29th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Love this - looking forward to an update :-)


Me: BW-44
Him: XWH-44
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


Posts: 4670 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Texas
Violated
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Default  Posted: 1:25 AM, May 29th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I feel your tee hee! Gives me hope.

Crossing fingers, thinking happy thoughts


Divorced 10/2013

Posts: 563 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: West Coast
Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 2:37 AM, May 29th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Riding in a boat...I hope that's not a seafaring version of riding the bus...

I'll be going about my business but checking back from time to time to see what's happening


I solemnly swear that I am up to no good.

Posts: 20453 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
cmego
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Default  Posted: 5:48 AM, May 29th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Very. Interesting.

I've seen guys out occasionally that are from OLD, most I think are less attractive than their photos.


me...BS, 44 years old, 2 small kids
WS, 41, multiple gay affairs
M 15 years, together 17
Divorced


Posts: 4231 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: South
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 7:56 AM, May 29th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Had an interesting dream where I was at his house with his kids hanging out and he was adding some items to the handlebars of my bike, including a picture of himself in a frame.

I'm busy till next week. Ball is in his court. You guys are hilarious.

[This message edited by FaithFool at 7:58 AM, May 29th (Thursday)]


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17706 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
nutmegkitty
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Default  Posted: 8:20 AM, May 29th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


me (BS)
him (NPD Ex)
2 dds
DDay 10/7/11
OW
OC

Divorced 1/17/2013

"Diamonds aren't a girl's best friend, freedom is."


Posts: 2612 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: MA
wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 8:24 AM, May 29th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm going to give you a "sq" for now. You'll get the "ee" if something pans out here.


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

Posts: 15435 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Now an AZ girl
StoryHour
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Default  Posted: 10:25 AM, May 29th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am in the same place! Who knows what will come of it, but I find out next week.

Fingers crossed and good luck to you!


3 Strikes you're out pal!
D. 8-10


Posts: 2034 | Registered: May 2008
hexed
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Default  Posted: 12:21 PM, May 29th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

On 2 different OLD sites I was matched with the same guy. He turned out to be a self important jerk. Made me wonder what about me they thought matched him! That's when I quit OLD.

I know two people that have met their now spouses via OLD. I'm hoping your experience goes more to that side of the equations.

Nothing says sexy like a hot guy in a kilt! PICTURES please!


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


Posts: 8489 | Registered: Apr 2008
JenniMay
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Default  Posted: 12:24 PM, May 29th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Love these chance meetings...look forward to hearing more!


Betrayed after 13 years of marriage.
DDay & Separated - June 2009
Divorced - March 2010


Posts: 684 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: On the Coast in Virginia
Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 12:33 PM, May 29th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So funny.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7820 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
MinorBee
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Default  Posted: 12:39 PM, May 29th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yeah!

"Cause if you get off the bus eventually then I think I'll hold the title of "longest bus rider."

Good luck!


previously married for 20 years
DDays: which time?, OW's which one?

Posts: 457 | Registered: Jan 2008
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 2:44 PM, May 29th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This isn't kilt guy. Different one.

So the site attaches a tag line to messages with photos attached that tells users to report the sender if there are nekkid pics are attached.

His response was that he'd spent 45 minutes diligently searching for one of me to no avail.

Good luck!

[This message edited by FaithFool at 2:53 PM, May 29th (Thursday)]


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17706 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 2:59 PM, May 29th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well on the boat would probably be a change for the better...

Cause if you get off the bus eventually then I think I'll hold the title of "longest bus rider
."


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17706 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
risingfromashes
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Default  Posted: 3:15 PM, May 29th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I saw this coming. You have slowly moving closer and closer to the exit.
Good for you


There is a wonderful life on the other side of hell.

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