Maybe this isn't the appropriate place to ask this... if so, my sincere apologies.
Just wondering if anyone knows of a good marriage counselor for dealing with infidelity in the San Francisco East Bay Area? General Bay Area is okay too, but East Bay preferred. Big plus if they take Blue Shield HMO.
My wife and I have come across a lot of "just okay" counselors in general, and very NOT okay when it comes to understanding infidelity at a level that most people here at SI do.
Anyone else have that kind of trouble?
Are there good questions to ask to weed out the ones who really don't get it?
Any advice/input welcome.