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purplejacket4
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Evil  Posted: 12:03 AM, June 2nd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So Friday I was on call for Ginormous Religious Hospital which means I admit anything from the far western part of my own state and half the eastern portion of the adjacent state. And yes that sucks just as much as you might suspect. We ended up with only about twenty admissions so it could have been worse.

So Saturday afternoon I'm finishing up rounding with my residents and med students and whose frizzy frazzled hair should I see? Yep, speech pathologist OW is moonlighting and doing swallowing studies on my patients. I came up behind her and I suppose she just saw the white coat out of the corner of her eye. "Would you like my seat?" Says she as she realizes who she just offered her chair to. "Nooo. I'm good." I said while peering down at her with my whole posse in tow. She could not wait to skedaddle off. She then vanished into thin air.

Earlier in my healing this would have thrown me into a tailspin. Now, meh who cares. I just found it amusing. I didn't even bother to tell FWS (any mention if OW's name makes FWS flinch). When I got home soon after I found that FWS had made me lunch after my shitty 24 hour call.

So guess what OW? I won. You lost. Have a nice day.


Me: BS 45
Her: fWS 48 (same sex partner)
Together: 18 years now (both MDs)
OW: meh so what 40s PhD
DD1: 10/30/11EA; DD2: 11/10/11 Had ONS; TT until 12/26/11; broke NC 6/12; NC again 7/12; R-ish

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Violated
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Default  Posted: 12:31 AM, June 2nd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Way to go pj! I love a little intimidation


Divorced 10/2013

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BrokenheartedUK
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Default  Posted: 2:15 AM, June 2nd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Enjoy your victories when you get them I say! Well done!


Dday: 4th of January, 2014
WH 50
BS 49
18 years of marriage...three children
One affair PA/EA
"You didn't see me I was falling apart, I was a television version of a person with a broken heart." The National

Posts: 235 | Registered: May 2014
Lyonesse
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Default  Posted: 2:21 AM, June 2nd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Love it.


Me: BS, 40's.

Posts: 1797 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: West Coast
yearsofpain25
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Default  Posted: 4:24 AM, June 2nd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Fantastic pj! Very well done. Something tells me OW won't be conducting any more studies at your hospital any time soon.


25 years and counting of pain caused by mother's infidelity. Aftermath: 1 deceased sibling, 1 lost family, 3 lost souls.
"Each new day I am just glad to be alive and have survived all that I did." Ashland13

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purplejacket4
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Default  Posted: 10:24 AM, June 2nd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well she has to moonlight there to keep her family fed. So I'm always going to run into her at some point.


Me: BS 45
Her: fWS 48 (same sex partner)
Together: 18 years now (both MDs)
OW: meh so what 40s PhD
DD1: 10/30/11EA; DD2: 11/10/11 Had ONS; TT until 12/26/11; broke NC 6/12; NC again 7/12; R-ish

Posts: 2239 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Great Southwest
SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 11:16 AM, June 2nd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This post made me smile. Especially liked this part:
When I got home soon after I found that FWS had made me lunch after my shitty 24 hour call.
Makes me feel all warm and fuzzy for you and FWS.


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


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Default  Posted: 11:53 AM, June 2nd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wait, she's doing swallowing studies on your patients? I almost spilled my tea on my laptop over that one.

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purplejacket4
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Default  Posted: 12:46 PM, June 2nd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Allusions!

I didn't realize what that would sound like to non medical people!


Me: BS 45
Her: fWS 48 (same sex partner)
Together: 18 years now (both MDs)
OW: meh so what 40s PhD
DD1: 10/30/11EA; DD2: 11/10/11 Had ONS; TT until 12/26/11; broke NC 6/12; NC again 7/12; R-ish

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7yrsflushed
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Default  Posted: 12:51 PM, June 2nd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wait, she's doing swallowing studies on your patients? I almost spilled my tea on my laptop over that one
I laughed at this as well. Hell, based on the topic title I came in half way expecting the first line in the post to be "but it's okay, I backed up and did it again."

Not that I condone violence but it's Monday and you have to find your funnies anyway you can sometimes.


D-day 5/24/11
BH = Me
2 children
The first true sense of calm I felt in YEARS was when I filed for D...
Divorced 9/2/14 and loving life!

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Ostrich80
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Default  Posted: 1:12 PM, June 2nd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Love a good story like this one yay!!!!!

Maybe she could do a swallowing study on my ws, ow...she's done enough of it


BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????

Posts: 5133 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: midwest
yearsofpain25
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Default  Posted: 1:14 PM, June 2nd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wait, she's doing swallowing studies on your patients? I almost spilled my tea on my laptop over that one.

I didn't realize what that would sound like to non medical people!

Just made my day!!


25 years and counting of pain caused by mother's infidelity. Aftermath: 1 deceased sibling, 1 lost family, 3 lost souls.
"Each new day I am just glad to be alive and have survived all that I did." Ashland13

Posts: 2192 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Northeast US
jadedheart
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Default  Posted: 1:33 PM, June 2nd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats on your "kicking butts and taking names" kinda day! Thanks for the positive post and the chuckle over the swallow evals.


Me 45
FWH 47
DS11, DD18, DS21(they know nothing about A)
Married 23 years together 25
Dday 09/24/2010
"You can't control how others behave, you can only control your reaction."

Posts: 980 | Registered: May 2011 | From: Indiana
strongerdaybyday
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Default  Posted: 1:54 PM, June 2nd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wait, she's doing swallowing studies on your patients? I almost spilled my tea on my laptop over that one.

I bet she is!


Me-BW Him - WH
Married 6 years, together 13+ years
D-Day Summer 2013
children-3
If it is what it is then what is it?

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JanaGreen
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Default  Posted: 3:20 PM, June 2nd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

*fist pump in the air for PJ*


We're both in our 30s. One awesome 4-year-old daughter.

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Scubadoo
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Default  Posted: 3:29 PM, June 2nd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

[This message edited by Scubadoo at 3:31 PM, June 2nd (Monday)]


BS (me) 42
WS (him) 48
OW (downgrade) 48
Married 11 yrs
DS 9
DD 8
D-day 10/27/13
8mth

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Raven96
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Default  Posted: 3:50 PM, June 2nd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Love this! Love the reactions to swallowing studies, too. Thank you for the laugh, and I'm glad you made her scurry away with her tail between her legs! You won all the way around!!


Marriage isn't a test, so why cheat?

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Twotimesucker
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Default  Posted: 3:52 PM, June 2nd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bravo! Love it!


Me BS-45
Her WW-36
D-Day3/31/14
Working towards R

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