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User Topic: What's wrong with me?
WImama
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Default  Posted: 4:03 AM, June 2nd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Today's my birthday and my husband left me again. Didn't come home from work. He has our only car and only car seats. He left me on my birthday before when I was pregnant with my almost 2 year old daughter. He cheated when my daughter was 2 months old, so we split up. I tried to give him another chance and he didn't come home on my birthday! I don't know what to do. I'm a stay at home mom, we just signed a new lease 2 weeks ago, and I cancelled divorce/child support. I wanted my marriage to work so bad

Posts: 29 | Registered: Nov 2012
OakStreet
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Default  Posted: 5:25 AM, June 2nd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((WImama))

Let me wish you a HAPPY BIRTHDAY!

I don't know the situation with your husband, so I can't give you any advice. I hope you have other people in your life who can help you get through this.

All anniversaries associated with an affair are painful. It's so unfair that your birthday has to be one of them.

Wishing you the best day you can possibly have!


Me: 58
Him: 65
Married: 21 years (well, we'll say 19 now!).
One son: 19, 2 adult stepdaughters
DDay: Oct. 14, 2013
18 month EA/PA with COW
Dday #2: 4/16/14 - took it underground for 5 months.
Haven't decided on outcome.

Posts: 526 | Registered: Nov 2013
tfkeel
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Default  Posted: 11:56 AM, June 2nd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What's wrong with me?

You have answered your own question, partially:

I'm a stay at home mom, we just signed a new lease 2 weeks ago, and I cancelled divorce/child support.

You can answer your own question completely when you understand WHY you did these things.

Especially in light of THESE things:


He left me on my birthday before when I was pregnant with my almost 2 year old daughter.

He cheated when my daughter was 2 months old

he didn't come home on my birthday! AGAIN

[This message edited by tfkeel at 11:59 AM, June 2nd (Monday)]


Posts: 587 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Pennsylvania
lmf9
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Default  Posted: 12:03 PM, June 2nd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so lost and broken myself right now that I have no advice but I wanted to wish you a Happy Birthday!!!!!!!

Posts: 54 | Registered: May 2014
SadInNC
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Default  Posted: 2:07 PM, June 2nd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy Birthday. I know this isn't the happiest birthday for you but I promise you that you will have better birthdays in the future. If he has left you again, on your birthday, you know what you need to do to make your life 100% better.

Figure out a game plan and don't have second thoughts this time around. He will only screw you again and again after promising you the world. Give yourself the best birthday present that you possibly can and get rid of this guy who thinks so little of you, he can't even remember your birthday. Or worse, he did remember it was your birthday and chose to not come home!

He is a Loser. You are not. Time to throw away the trash...


BS/Me WH/Him

"Your value doesn't decrease based on someone's inability to see your worth." -Unknown Wise Person


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