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User Topic: WW will have Rj Day tomorrow
LostSamurai
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Default  Posted: 7:16 PM, June 2nd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Tomorrow my WW will have her own Dday persay called Rj (Rejection) Day. If she doesn't or does say she wants to R, she is going to be in for a shock, because I am going to straight out and say the following;

"I want to Reconcile but will not be choosing that."
"I will no longer be going to MC and I will be leaving the church. Here is the key."

If she wants to R and throws tears and all then I will say, talk to MC, and see what he says. I'm done.


I am now nothing by a mere Ronin.

Posts: 1041 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: Maryland
Better4it
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Default  Posted: 7:25 PM, June 2nd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hi Lostsamurai,

Sorry for your pain Brother. I guess it's true what some people say. Sometimes it just takes are hearts longer to catch up to what are minds are already trying to tell us. Good luck to you


WW 40 (her)
BH 40 (me)

Posts: 63 | Registered: May 2014 | From: Southwest
LostSamurai
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Default  Posted: 7:27 PM, June 2nd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks. Originally, was going to write an email a letter for tomorrow then I was going to write an email stating if you think you want to R, then read some of this, pointing her to SI, but there is no point. She doesn't want to be with me anymore, any longer than she already has.


I am now nothing by a mere Ronin.

Posts: 1041 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: Maryland
totalheartbreak
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Default  Posted: 7:36 PM, June 2nd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm sorry LostSamurai. I've read your posts. I feel for you.
In an odd coincidence I changed my ipad background to a stylized silhouette of a samurai standing, but with his head down shortly after my DDays.
A warrior of the purest honor who was completely betrayed. It resonated with me.
Today, I tell you to keep your head up. I wish you strength and confidence.
You will become a Ronin. Good luck, I will be thinking of you. Hang in there.


Me: BH (30s)
Wayflost: WW (30s)
"Ever notice those that advocate anything for 'happiness' are perennially unhappy?"
time isn't what you think it is.

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yearsofpain25
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Default  Posted: 8:17 PM, June 2nd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hey LS, still here listening. I know it's not what you wanted. But has become what you needed. Sending you strength and courage for tomorrow.

yop


25 years and counting of pain caused by mother's infidelity. Aftermath: 1 deceased sibling, 1 lost family, 3 lost souls.
"Each new day I am just glad to be alive and have survived all that I did." Ashland13

Posts: 2351 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Northeast US
LostSamurai
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Default  Posted: 9:27 PM, June 2nd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks everyone. I actually will be changing my UN tomorrow to Ronin as well. After all, I no longer will have a master tomorrow come 2pm.


I am now nothing by a mere Ronin.

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totalheartbreak
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Default  Posted: 9:32 PM, June 2nd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This was the image I mentioned.


Me: BH (30s)
Wayflost: WW (30s)
"Ever notice those that advocate anything for 'happiness' are perennially unhappy?"
time isn't what you think it is.

Posts: 167 | Registered: Dec 2013
LostSamurai
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Default  Posted: 9:52 PM, June 2nd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I like that. You should look up the true story of the 47 Ronin...


I am now nothing by a mere Ronin.

Posts: 1041 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: Maryland
Ostrich80
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Default  Posted: 2:08 AM, June 3rd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((LS) )). Sending you strength for tomorrow. I'm sorry things didn't work out


BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????

Posts: 5243 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: midwest
LostSamurai
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Default  Posted: 5:53 AM, June 3rd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I don't care anymore. Thank you for the strength.

She text me last night and said what if I don't have an answer for you today.

I said that's find, I have an answer that will take care of everything.

So I won't worry.


I am now nothing by a mere Ronin.

Posts: 1041 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: Maryland
yearsofpain25
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Default  Posted: 6:04 AM, June 3rd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Pulling for you today LS. God speed and strength to you.


25 years and counting of pain caused by mother's infidelity. Aftermath: 1 deceased sibling, 1 lost family, 3 lost souls.
"Each new day I am just glad to be alive and have survived all that I did." Ashland13

Posts: 2351 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Northeast US
Better4it
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Default  Posted: 11:53 AM, June 3rd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Lost Sam,

Was thinking of you and your struggle. Again good luck with today and your meeting with WW. I hope she wakes up and sees the damage she's causing due to her selfishness.


WW 40 (her)
BH 40 (me)

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cantaccept
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Default  Posted: 12:06 PM, June 3rd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((LostSamurai))) sending you strength


"So often times it happens, that we live our lives in chains and we never even know we have the key"

I would now like to be known as Can!

dday October 21,2012
dday December 20, 2013
wh boots5050
attempted R, it was all a lie

Divorced!


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TrulySad
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Default  Posted: 2:22 PM, June 3rd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I've been quietly following your story. I'm sorry for what you're going through. I hope things will finally be looking better for you. Hang in there!

If there is one thing I've learned through three broken relationships, it's that while this life I'm living isn't the one I dreamed of, it's not going to stop me from making it the best damn one I can. The first step is to take back control of your life...It looks like you're on your way...


Me: Sad, but I will survive

True Love: What I have for my beautiful children.


Posts: 481 | Registered: Jun 2013
RedRaven6500
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Default  Posted: 2:55 PM, June 3rd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I wish you the best of luck as well. Interesting fact: you can actually visit the Sengakuji Temple in Toyko, where the 47 Ronin are said to be buried, near Shinagawa Station. I lived in Japan for four years, and this is one if those places that is a must see tourist spot while in Tokyo. The story is a definite lesson in patience, to say the least. :)


BW: Me 42, WH: Him 42, Married: 22 years
DD: 21, DS: 20 both in college
DDay: 22 Oct 2011
Year PAs/EAs started: 2004, possibly 2003
OW: 3 serious long-distance PA/EA's, several casual PA's, some at the same time. Classy
In R

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