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User Topic: small step, but a good sign i think
Ostrich80
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Default  Posted: 2:40 PM, June 3rd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So today is the sea-hag's bday. In the past, this day would have me in A tizzy. I've spent countless hours parked in the hot car on ws route to work, hoping I would catch him with her. I actually forgot it was her bday this year, until someone told me that saw it on her DD's fbk wall. So I'm not wasting my time to drive and stake out his job, I'm not going to slyly smell him when he walks in the door, and I'm not going to ransack his clothes after he showers..nope, I'm planting flowers today and its just another warm June day. Not a big step but at least one forward and not back. BTW..this is big for me, as menial as it sounds have a nice day friends


BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????

Posts: 5127 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: midwest
lostworld
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Default  Posted: 3:02 PM, June 3rd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think it's a big wonderful step, and I'm really happy that you were able to take it!


Me: BS
Him: FWH
Married 30 yrs. w/ 2 grown kids
Dday 1: Very early 2007
Dday 2: Mid 2008 (same MOW, 14 month false R)
R'd
The affair was the aberration, not the marriage or the man.

Posts: 817 | Registered: Apr 2008
LeftOutintheCold
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Default  Posted: 7:43 PM, June 3rd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great job! It really is a big thing when you realize you are getting on with your life. All steps moving forward are worth celebrating and being proud of!!


Me - 42
WH - 40
Dday - 3/6/14
Married 5yrs, together 11yrs
Status - Headed towards Divorce

Posts: 332 | Registered: Mar 2014
SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 7:51 PM, June 3rd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.
Lao-tzu, The Way of Lao-tzu
Chinese philosopher (604 BC - 531 BC)
Enjoy your gardening!


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


Posts: 9793 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
LifeIsTooWeird
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Default  Posted: 10:44 PM, June 3rd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hehe sea hag, well sending bday wishes that she got a lump of coal up her butt. Congrats on making it through the day, just got through my first one, next year will be easier.


Me - GF (38)
Him - BF (33)
DDay - 08/13
Together 8 Years
In R

Posts: 133 | Registered: Jan 2014
Ostrich80
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Default  Posted: 8:02 AM, June 4th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

]well sending bday wishes that she got a lump of coal up her butt.[

Maybe one lump for every year she's f**ked up for me

[This message edited by Ostrich80 at 8:04 AM, June 4th (Wednesday)]


BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????

Posts: 5127 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: midwest
brokeninfl
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Default  Posted: 8:13 AM, June 4th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It doesn't sound like a small step to me -- just a perhaps a small sign of some big healing.

I'm so glad you are doing better


"On the other side of fear lies freedom"

Me - 36 BS
Him - doesn't matter
2 DS
DD 11/08
Divorced.


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