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User Topic: Being honest with myself
Brandon808
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Default  Posted: 4:14 PM, June 4th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's a good point Abby and you may be onto something there. I'm going to keep exploring that in IC.


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abbycadabby
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Default  Posted: 4:23 PM, June 4th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm going to keep exploring that in IC.

Brandon has an IC and doesn't need me for that! Duly noted! j/k


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Brandon808
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Default  Posted: 4:26 PM, June 4th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Brandon has an IC and doesn't need me for that! Duly noted!

Oh...funny.


xBH
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abbycadabby
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Default  Posted: 4:42 PM, June 4th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes, I can tell you're quite keen on my impressive wit. lol

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Brandon808
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Default  Posted: 4:46 PM, June 4th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Actually I do like your wit and your wisdom Abby


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abbycadabby
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Default  Posted: 4:50 PM, June 4th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay!!


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heartbroken_kk
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Default  Posted: 7:57 PM, June 4th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Interesting self-observation Brandon. I have been alerted to a potential job by my FWB, Firehouse Guy. It's working in the same field as he does - something tangentially outside of my prior work experiences.

I have to constantly ask myself: would I take this job if it had nothing to do with him? Am I attracted to it *because* he is affiliated with the field? Do I want it because I want to be near him? Am I too insecure to keep looking beyond this?

On the other had, the job would be a stretch, and I like challenges. Like REALLY like to be stretched. I'm an achiever and I like learning and this job would require both.

And then I wonder if I'm showboating. Is this for ME? Or to make me more attractive to HIM?


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D-Day 1 1999, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... 2009 thru 2011.

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Brandon808
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Default  Posted: 8:00 PM, June 4th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

And then I wonder if I'm showboating. Is this for ME? Or to make me more attractive to HIM?
Exactly heartbroken_kk. It's not so unusual for that to be part of our motivation. It just drives me nuts when you can't figure you out that question.


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