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User Topic: I got promoted!
MadeOfScars
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Default  Posted: 7:29 PM, June 4th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This year started off so very, very horribly with d-day and the giant shit sandwich that comes with it all. Divorce, stress, and what is turning into recovery in my new beginning have brought me to this place not even 6 months later. I was honestly worried for the longest time that my work performance was slipping. My head and heart just weren't in it for a while, and I still struggle some days. So, when I got the call from my director yesterday, I certainly didn't expect what he would say.

I can now say I'm a Senior Operations Manager for a business unit of a company I know everyone here has heard of. We are the focus of said company and we're growing at an exponential rate. This is such an incredible opportunity, and even with as tough as it will be to adjust to for a bit, my resume just became gold overnight. I am so incredibly excited. It's insane.

To think, broken and half-dead me was still good enough to stand out to this degree. I hope this is a sign of good things to kick off the second half of 2014. I'm not even embarrassed to say your man right here may have let out a "squee" in my car on the way home after hearing.

Anyway, wanted to pass some of my positive mood along to you all!


“The wound is the place where the Light enters you.” ― Rumi

Posts: 1220 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Texas
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 7:33 PM, June 4th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's FANTASTIC! Congratulations, MoS!!!


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


Posts: 25691 | Registered: Aug 2011
Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 7:36 PM, June 4th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

yay! Congrats!


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7761 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 7:53 PM, June 4th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats!!!! I am so happy for you!

Posts: 35798 | Registered: Mar 2011
phmh
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Default  Posted: 8:04 PM, June 4th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations! Definitely a sign of more fabulous things to come in your new life.

Great job!!!


Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!

Married: 11 years, no kids

Character is destiny


Posts: 3400 | Registered: Dec 2011
lieshurt
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Default  Posted: 8:09 PM, June 4th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!


Choices, Chances, Changes.....You must make a Choice to take a Chance or your life will never Change.

Posts: 13803 | Registered: Mar 2007 | From: Houston
Brandon808
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Default  Posted: 8:37 PM, June 4th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!


xBH
D final 8/2012

Posts: 3986 | Registered: May 2012 | From: southeast
inconnu
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Default  Posted: 8:58 PM, June 4th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!!!


Say what you wanna say and let the words fall out...honestly
I wanna see you be brave

Pretty pretty please, don't you ever ever feel
Like you're less than, less than perfect


Posts: 12164 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: TX
sheila0304
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Default  Posted: 9:04 PM, June 4th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Squeeeeee!!!!!

Great new beginning!


Posts: 1175 | Registered: Aug 2009
MadeOfScars
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Default  Posted: 9:05 PM, June 4th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks everyone!

The only kinda "sad" part was my first reaction upon getting the news was to tell someone, and that someone had been my ex for so long. Anyway, my family knows, and once the "official" announcement is made I may not be able to keep my mouth shut for a while. My success is just another loss for my ex. This is about me and for me. Ah, feels great.

So, I may not post here as much as I did for a while, but it'll be great to take on some new challenges, break out of what was my norm for so long, and drive forth change and progress. Hell, even a month ago I would've probably crumbled under the new pressure. Now - bring it!


“The wound is the place where the Light enters you.” ― Rumi

Posts: 1220 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Texas
norabird
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Default  Posted: 10:02 PM, June 4th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so happy to hear this! You have such a wonderful attitude and you deserve it.


WOOHOO!!!!!!


Sit. Feast on your life.

Posts: 4196 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: NYC
MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 10:06 PM, June 4th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats!!


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


Posts: 52561 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
She11ybeanz
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Default  Posted: 10:24 AM, June 5th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats!!! ::woot woot::


"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12


Posts: 2724 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Virginia
Charity411
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Default  Posted: 10:30 AM, June 5th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good for you!!!

Posts: 384 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: Illinois
little turtle
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Default  Posted: 11:06 AM, June 5th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats!!!


Failure is success if we learn from it.

Posts: 4202 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: michigan
Forged1
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Default  Posted: 12:04 PM, June 5th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations and well done.


Me: BH - 30s
Her: WW - 30s

Married - 2008
PA with boss for at least 5 months in 2013, possibly longer.
DDay - Feb 2014
Separated, heading to D
==================================
At this stage, I'm pretty much bulletproof.


Posts: 306 | Registered: May 2014 | From: USA
movingforward13
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Default  Posted: 3:47 PM, June 5th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!!!


Once a cheater, always a cheater happens when your cheater doesn't have remorse.
Regret is not remorse- know the difference!

Posts: 640 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: DC
woundedby2
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Default  Posted: 4:32 PM, June 5th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good for you, MOS! Congratulations.


Me: BS
2 kids: DD15 and DS18
Him: The Assclown NPD
OW: "friend" of 15 years
Divorced! Feb. 2010

Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson


Posts: 7823 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: SoCal
traicionada
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Default  Posted: 7:24 PM, June 5th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yupeee!!!!


Real love is a CHOICE, NOT a feeling...

Posts: 3323 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Dallas, Texas
hexed
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Default  Posted: 7:32 PM, June 5th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

WAHOOO!!!


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


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