Do you mean that you can't talk to him because the music is so loud or because you're nervous?
I am an outgoing, friendly person in general. When I go out, I smile and talk to everyone. If it's in a super loud place, that's when you get up close to someone's ear to say something, or gesture like "I can't hear you!" Smiling is huge. Did you want to go on a date with this guy, or are you still healing and prefer to stay single?Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!
Married: 11 years, no kids
The greater danger for most of us lies not in setting our aim too high and falling short; but in setting our aim too low, and achieving our mark. -Michelangelo