After 6 months of half-assed R attempt and lies, I pulled the plug this week-end.
She's been getting more distant and pulling disappearing tricks. Due to working the night shift, she only sees DD a few minutes on work days and then on days off. On her off days, she's been going off with friends and not doing a thing around the house and paying no attention to DD.
This past week-end, she went completely off radar, to the point I filed a missing person's report. I then hacked her i-phone account, found an overly active number and called it. Yup, a man answered.
My next text to her was "We're through and I want you out now!!"
Not sad for me, but for DD (15) and DS (20). I told them the truth of whats happened. Why should I protect her careless mother!!
Now WW telling kids I knew we were only together for them (DS is 20) and that I was ok with her being with others (um, what ). I just said no to them and that I would NEVER, AND I MEAN NEVER allow that type of arrangement.
WW tried to justify to me and I laughed to her face.
Right now, she's not looking for much. Would like custody of DD but I'm going (try) to veto that till she gets her head out of her ass and can be reliable.
She also told then I was dating too (no). Like I said, not so sad for me. After 3-4 years of lunatic crap, relieved to be seeing the end.
Sadly, moving to the s/d forum.
May the Lord Bless and Keep me. Good support group of family and friends, so I will be fine.Me: BH (43) Her WW 41
She no more will have that power over me. I can make, and will make, my own happiness. We we're a good team at one point, but I am great as an individual!!