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User Topic: Had my genetic counseling appointment
JanaGreen
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Default  Posted: 3:22 PM, June 5th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So my official diagnosis is "really bad luck."

Two miscarriages due to trisomies, one with a Godzilla of a subchorionic hematoma and a too-tiny fetus.

My doctor, another doctor at my practice, and the three OBs that my sister talked to (she's an L&D nurse) all said they thought we should get karyotyping done, but this lady, she said no, no point in it.

They're going to check me for a couple of clotting disorders and they're checking my HCG - I'm bleeding slightly more heavily today and I THINK it might finally be a period, but I still got a positive pregnancy test (faint but definite) this morning. She was slightly concerned that the prior pregnancy might have been a partial molar pregnancy, but she said I just need to make sure my OB follows up with an ultrasound if I don't get to zero/get my period soon.

I'm so over this, y'all. Thanks for reading if you made it this far.


We're both in our 30s. One awesome 4-year-old daughter.

Posts: 6804 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Somewhere in the South
zebra25
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Default  Posted: 3:32 PM, June 5th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Jana)))


Me-BS 40's
Him-WH 40's
D-day April 2010
Married-20+yrs

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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 3:48 PM, June 5th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((Jana)))))

Sending you big hugs and strength.

[This message edited by SI Staff at 3:48 PM, June 5th (Thursday)]


Posts: 35795 | Registered: Mar 2011
woundedby2
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Default  Posted: 4:25 PM, June 5th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Jana)))


Me: BS
2 kids: DD15 and DS18
Him: The Assclown NPD
OW: "friend" of 15 years
Divorced! Feb. 2010

Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson


Posts: 7823 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: SoCal
gahurts
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Default  Posted: 4:28 PM, June 5th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry Jana


"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie


Posts: 3432 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Georgia
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 4:29 PM, June 5th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((((Jana))))))))


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5254 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 4:33 PM, June 5th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Jana))))

Hopefully this will give you a chemical reboot, and you can start with a fresh clean slate, or uterus.

((((and strength)))


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 8684 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
Aubrie
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Default  Posted: 4:55 PM, June 5th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Jana))))

Been thinking about ya.


Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne

"What if I fall?" Oh but my darling, what if you fly?


Posts: 6290 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: South, Y'all!
Rebreather
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Default  Posted: 5:06 PM, June 5th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well. At least you have some answers, huh? I wish it was a straighter path for you, JG.


Me BS
Him WH
2 ddays in '07
Recovering.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi

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tired girl
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Default  Posted: 5:09 PM, June 5th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Jana))))


Me45 Him 45 Hardlessons DS 25,23,20
D Day 1/18/10 his 3/8/2012 mine
"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." Eleanor Roosevelt

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Mama_of_3_Kids
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Default  Posted: 9:15 PM, June 5th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Jana)))


Me: FBW/30 Him: FWH/33 The kidlets: DS13, DS10, and DD8 The hounds: Four Shih Tzu's
Finally, completely R'd
Clothed in strength and dignity, with nothing to fear, she smiles when she thinks about the future.~Proverbs 31:25

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purplejacket4
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Default  Posted: 9:24 PM, June 5th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hugs!


Me: BS 45
Her: fWS 48 (same sex partner)
Together: 18 years now (both MDs)
OW: meh so what 40s PhD
DD1: 10/30/11EA; DD2: 11/10/11 Had ONS; TT until 12/26/11; broke NC 6/12; NC again 7/12; R-ish

Posts: 2238 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Great Southwest
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 9:28 PM, June 5th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((Jana)))))


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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yewtree
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Default  Posted: 11:21 PM, June 5th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Jana)))


Me(BS)45(at the time of D-day)

Divorced 2009, Closing on house Nov 2011 -
No longer waiting for the other "she" to drop.


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ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 11:58 PM, June 5th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Jana)))

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landabear
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Default  Posted: 12:16 PM, June 6th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

they're checking my HCG - I'm bleeding slightly more heavily today and I THINK it might finally be a period, but I still got a positive pregnancy test (faint but definite) this morning

Wow. You most definitely should not still be getting positives. I'd keep on that one detail with your doctors.

So my official diagnosis is "really bad luck."

<SIGH> I hate answers like that. I'd hoped for more information for you.

I'm so over this, y'all.

Of course you are. I hope now that the appointment is done you can rest a bit.

[This message edited by landabear at 12:17 PM, June 6th (Friday)]


BS
Divorced: March 2006
Married to a wonderful, FAITHFUL man: October 2009

Posts: 741 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Midwest
itainteasy
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Default  Posted: 1:26 PM, June 6th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Jana))))

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little turtle
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Default  Posted: 12:52 PM, June 7th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Jana)))


Failure is success if we learn from it.

Posts: 4202 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: michigan
JanaGreen
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Default  Posted: 11:09 AM, June 9th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks so much for the hugs and encouragement. I just ordered this book:

http://www.tofullterm.com/

after seeing a recommendation on a loss board so I am hoping maybe it'll offer some ideas or at least some comfort.


We're both in our 30s. One awesome 4-year-old daughter.

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