I was just wondering if when w/s breaks n/c and they get with the ap, can it ever be as exhilerating as it was in the actual affair now that it's been discovered? Wouldn't discovery be a "buzz kill"? W/S's welcome
Yes, it can be just as exhilerating after dday
That is why so many affairs are found out to have gone underground or been resumed after dday.
If the affair partner is married, have you outed the affair partner to the other faithful spouse.
If not, please do this. This does prevent the affair from going underground sometimes.
Also, can you out the affair partner to anyone else the affair partner respects?