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User Topic: texting with the Narcissist
absolut
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Default  Posted: 7:11 PM, June 8th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

NPD positively thrive on negative comments of any-and I mean, ANY-kind. Some of them seek it. In their pov, it could be a type of fuel for them.

KNOW THIS.

So don't beat yourself against a wall with zingers and stuff.

You know the expression "work smarter not harder"

First, I literally accept any offer of help to bring anything. *But be crafty*
You already had all the stuff for the team? GREAT! Thank him, ask him to bring some stuff you already bought. Bring everything with you in case he "forgets" but stash the stuff you asked him to double-buy under the seats so he doesn't see and accuse you of "you don't trust me to follow through"(you know how they are). Thank him because you were in such a rush!!! Money in your pocket, after school snacks for your kids for the next week or two.

Narc's are very stupid because their brains get fried from only thinking about themselves. Use that


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Kajem
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Default  Posted: 12:15 AM, June 9th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I've had this happen once. Only it was about 4 hours before the game. He forgot. I had already loaded the stuff in my van before he called. He was going to the last game - I had 3 before that one. I was lucky I don't trust him. He will take every opportunity to make me look bad, this was no exception .

After that when he texted, I just texted " I got it, don't worry". And I did !!!


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

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