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nowiknow23
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Member # 33226
Concerned  Posted: 9:45 AM, June 8th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm in my hometown this weekend with DD15, visiting my dad. He was rushed to the hospital overnight. Don't have much information yet, but his hemoglobin is very low despite receiving six units of blood two days ago. It looks like he might be spiraling.

If you could, please send him some positive thoughts, comfort, and peace.


You can call me NIK

"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you."
-Walt Whitman


Posts: 26174 | Registered: Aug 2011
thebighurt
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Default  Posted: 9:59 AM, June 8th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So sorry to hear this, NIK. Sending everything I've got. (((((((Huge hugs to the family and Dad))))))


Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

Posts: 2465 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: the Other Side
Jrazz
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Member # 31349
Default  Posted: 11:10 AM, June 8th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending all the positive thoughts and peace that I can to him, you, the kids... everyone.

I'm sorry, honey.


"If the path you walk leads back to yourself, you'll never get anywhere." - Master Oogway

Posts: 18307 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
persevere
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Default  Posted: 11:12 AM, June 8th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending positive thoughts, prayers, strength and peace to your dad and to you lady. ((Hugs))

[This message edited by persevere at 11:12 AM, June 8th (Sunday)]


Me: BW-44
Him: XWH-44
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


Posts: 4669 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Texas
jo2love
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Member # 31528
Default  Posted: 11:15 AM, June 8th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Nik & family)))

Sending love, strength, good thoughts, and hope. You are in my heart.


Posts: 36452 | Registered: Mar 2011
Deeply Scared
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Member # 2
Default  Posted: 11:15 AM, June 8th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK))) Sending you peaceful and healing thoughts


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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Rebreather
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Default  Posted: 11:19 AM, June 8th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending best possible wishes for him!


Me BS
Him WH
2 ddays in '07
Recovering.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi

Posts: 6643 | Registered: Jan 2011
inconnu
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Default  Posted: 11:19 AM, June 8th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((nik))) keeping y'all in my thoughts


Say what you wanna say and let the words fall out...honestly
I wanna see you be brave

Pretty pretty please, don't you ever ever feel
Like you're less than, less than perfect


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FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 11:30 AM, June 8th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK))) Glad you can be there for him.


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17703 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
Chrysalis123
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Default  Posted: 11:44 AM, June 8th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying.....


Don’t get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well. 

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metamorphisis
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Default  Posted: 11:47 AM, June 8th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending love and mojo to you and your dad and dd. ((((((((nik))))))))))



“We don't see things as they are; we see them as we are.”... Anais Nin

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DixieD
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Default  Posted: 11:50 AM, June 8th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK)))) I'm sorry to hear to that. Hoping for comfort and peace for all of you.


Growing forward

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LosferWords
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Default  Posted: 11:50 AM, June 8th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((NIK, Dad, and Family)))))

Sending thoughts and mojo your way.


Posts: 8001 | Registered: Dec 2010
woundedby2
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Default  Posted: 12:13 PM, June 8th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((nik)))

Sending prayers and mojo.


Me: BS
2 kids: DD15 and DS18
Him: The Assclown NPD
OW: "friend" of 15 years
Divorced! Feb. 2010

Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson


Posts: 7845 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: SoCal
woundedby2
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Default  Posted: 12:13 PM, June 8th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((nik)))

Sending prayers and mojo.


Me: BS
2 kids: DD15 and DS18
Him: The Assclown NPD
OW: "friend" of 15 years
Divorced! Feb. 2010

Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson


Posts: 7845 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: SoCal
tryingagain74
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Default  Posted: 12:50 PM, June 8th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending you, your dad, and the rest of your family prayers and positive thoughts.

(((NIK, Dad, family)))


BS (Me) 39
Happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

Posts: 3642 | Registered: Oct 2011
sisoon
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Default  Posted: 1:02 PM, June 8th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Count me in, NIK. This sure is a rough year for you - not fair at all.

(((NIK))) (((NIK's Dad))) (((NIK's family)))


fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 10570 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
sadtoo
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Default  Posted: 1:26 PM, June 8th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((nik & dad)))


It is what it is, not what we hope it can be.

When another woman takes your husband,
sometimes the best thing you can do for
yourself is to LET HER HAVE the worthless
bum.
OC born 2001
Divorced 2003
Remarried 2008 (New Guy)


Posts: 8037 | Registered: Aug 2003 | From: Iowa
ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 3:29 PM, June 8th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((nik and dad)))

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BrokenButTrying
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Default  Posted: 3:37 PM, June 8th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((NIK & dad))))))

Hope he gets better soon. Sending love and strength.


Me - 27
Him - 27
Madhatters

My Ddays - Jan 2010 & 12/04/14
His Dday - 23/12/13

Chin up. Unwavering. Fight. I can do this.


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