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fireproof
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Default  Posted: 9:02 PM, June 24th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending prayers and thoughts to you and your Dad.

Sounds like he is a fighter. That is a positive thing. Hope they come up with a good treatment plan and he makes a full recovery.

[This message edited by fireproof at 9:03 PM, June 24th (Tuesday)]


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rainagain
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Default  Posted: 9:16 PM, June 24th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((NIK))))


Now, faith is being sure of what you hope for and certain of what you cannot see. Heb 11:1
I done been through the pain and the sorrow the struggle is nothing but love. Maino
Me: Divorced BS 49
DS22, DD19, DS17

Posts: 1296 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Massachusetts
InnerLight
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Default  Posted: 10:40 PM, June 24th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He sounds like he has a lot of fight in him yet. I hope he pulls through soon. Sending my good wishes to you...


BS, age 53, d-day 6-2-08, divorced after 17 years and 20 together. Now I am living alone in the beautiful rural property that was once the dream retreat with X. It's taking a long time to create new dreams but despite some struggles I am mostly happy.

Posts: 5826 | Registered: Jun 2008 | From: Rural California
DixieD
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Default  Posted: 9:02 AM, June 25th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

NIK, I'm sorry your dad is going through all this. When I was reading about the outlets and the phone jacks, I chuckled and thought he sounds like a pretty cool/interesting guy. Hugs to you both.


Growing forward

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norabird
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Default  Posted: 9:23 AM, June 25th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just saw this--I'm so sorry NIK. I hope he bounces back soon. Sending much strength mojo and love to your Dad and family.


Sit. Feast on your life.

Posts: 4172 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: NYC
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 6:47 PM, July 5th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Dad is still in the hospital, and I haven't updated in a while because nothing was changing. Until today.

This morning, dad's oxygen levels started falling and he was struggling to breathe, so they moved him to the icu. I drove over and arrived this evening just as they were taking him for a scan to see if he's got a pulmonary embolism.


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 6:52 PM, July 5th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending prayers to you and your father.


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


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Default  Posted: 6:55 PM, July 5th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((nik))))


Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 7:01 PM, July 5th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Nik & dad)))

Sending prayers and good thoughts.


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tired girl
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Default  Posted: 10:02 PM, July 5th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(NIK and dad))))

Sending good thoughts and prayers.


Me45 Him 45 Hardlessons DS 25,23,20
D Day 1/18/10 his 3/8/2012 mine
"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." Eleanor Roosevelt

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metamorphisis
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Default  Posted: 10:10 PM, July 5th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((((((nik))))))))))
thinking of you all evening. Sending love and strength and peace to you both.



“We don't see things as they are; we see them as we are.”... Anais Nin

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Kajem
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Default  Posted: 10:12 PM, July 5th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending prayers, mojo, good thoughts whatever you need.

((((((((NIK)))))))


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

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LosferWords
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Default  Posted: 10:45 PM, July 5th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((NIK))))

Holding you and your dad in my thoughts.


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persevere
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Default  Posted: 12:57 AM, July 6th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Nik and dad))))
Positive strength and energy for you both.


Me: BW-44
Him: XWH-44
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


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SweetheartVixen
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Default  Posted: 2:09 AM, July 6th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just saw this. Im so sorry. Sending Prayers and positive thoughts.

((((NIK))))


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Its nice to be important, but its more important to be nice...

DD 6-14


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sisoon
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Default  Posted: 11:22 AM, July 6th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Till thinking of you and your family, and sending positive thoughts.

I hope you can find some peace during this vry trying time.


fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 10100 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 1:40 PM, July 6th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thinking about you all day, sweets.


I bow to those who keep their hearts open when it is most difficult, those who refuse to keep their armor on any longer than they have to, those who recognize the courage at the heart of vulnerability. - Jeff Brown

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knightsbff
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Default  Posted: 2:25 PM, July 6th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((NIK)))) mojo, positive thoughts, love, and prayers coming your way.


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3 kids and 2 dogs

Posts: 1428 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Deep South, USA
tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 4:32 PM, July 6th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((NIK)))))

Praying for comfort and peace, and quality time with him
((((And strength))))


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 8523 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
DixieD
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Default  Posted: 4:34 PM, July 6th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Very sorry to hear this NIK. You are in our thoughts.

(((((NIK)))))


Growing forward

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