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painpaingoaway
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Default  Posted: 7:59 PM, July 6th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK))) sending calming thoughts and prayers for peace for your Dad (and you).


me BS female 56/him WS 59
Married 33 years
D-day July 09/he gave me his slut's STD
Watch my movie: "My wayward husband's adventures in STD land":
Episode 1: youtu.be/9Jv0-d_CdYc
Episode 2: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8Tz822H82Gk

Posts: 7135 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Coastal South
TrulyReconciled
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Default  Posted: 9:47 AM, July 7th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK)))


"In a time of deceit, telling the Truth is a revolutionary act."

Posts: 21430 | Registered: Dec 2003 | From: Hell and back, way back :o)
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 10:16 AM, July 7th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you all so much.

There's no pulmonary embolism, but Dad continues to struggle with his breathing due to fluid build-up.

He's miserable and in pain. He is now talking about how he doesn't want to continue as he is, since his quality of life is gone. Although these are difficult things to hear, I am relieved that he is coming to terms with where he is and is able to talk about it openly with us.

Difficult days for all of us. Your thoughts and support are appreciated more than I can say.


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


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yearsofpain25
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Default  Posted: 10:31 AM, July 7th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hey NIK. Just wanted to send more positive thoughts and strength for both you and your dad to get through.

I will be thinking of you today

yop


25 years and counting of pain caused by mother's infidelity. Aftermath: 1 deceased sibling, 1 lost family, 3 lost souls.
"Each new day I am just glad to be alive and have survived all that I did." Ashland13

Posts: 2349 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Northeast US
Tred
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Default  Posted: 10:40 AM, July 7th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending positive thoughts your way NIK.


Married: 17 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

Posts: 4073 | Registered: Dec 2011
5454real
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Default  Posted: 10:44 AM, July 7th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

sending you more strength and prayers.


BH 51, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 20(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
“I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.”
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 3160 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 11:38 AM, July 7th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((((Nik))))))

Keeping you and my family in my prayers.

K


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5528 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
DixieD
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Default  Posted: 11:59 AM, July 7th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((NIK))))


Growing forward

Posts: 1767 | Registered: Sep 2011
metamorphisis
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Default  Posted: 12:40 PM, July 7th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending you love and strength. I am so so sorry that you have to be so sad my friend.



“We don't see things as they are; we see them as we are.”... Anais Nin

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norabird
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Default  Posted: 2:15 PM, July 7th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He must be a wonderful man to have raised you. I hope he improves...if not I hope there will be peace and dignity for him and an ability to choose his exit gracefully.

Sending peace and strength.


Sit. Feast on your life.

Posts: 4203 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: NYC
plainsong
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Default  Posted: 4:47 PM, July 8th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending prayers for comfort and support for you, your father and your family. This is a very difficult time, and it is so good that you can know that whatever happens is taking place in the context of the loving relationship that you and your father have created between you.


Me,WW,69;
Him,BH,70 - Happy Birthday!
Dday,12/22/2010
I use capital letters for emphasis, not yelling!

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sisoon
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Default  Posted: 5:21 PM, July 8th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK & Dad & family)))


fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 10570 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
hexed
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Default  Posted: 5:58 PM, July 8th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((NIK))


Thinking about you and your Dad. Sending out thoughts of peace and comfort for you.


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


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wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 6:39 PM, July 8th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Empress, dad and family)))))


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

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little turtle
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Default  Posted: 11:01 PM, July 8th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((NIK)))))


Failure is success if we learn from it.

Posts: 4223 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: michigan
CheaterMagnet
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Default  Posted: 6:04 PM, July 10th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending you both peace and strength. (((NIK)))


If Happy Ever After did exist, I would still be holding you like this.
All those fairly tales are full of shit.
One more fucking love song I'll be sick. ~ Maroon 5

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