Topic: Dad hospitalized
Member # 27196
| Posted: 7:59 PM, July 6th (Sunday), 2014|
(((NIK))) sending calming thoughts and prayers for peace for your Dad (and you).
me BS female 56/him WS 59
Married 33 years
D-day July 09/he gave me his slut's STD
Watch my movie: "My wayward husband's adventures in STD land":
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Posts: 7113 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Coastal South
Member # 3031
| Posted: 9:47 AM, July 7th (Monday), 2014|
"In a time of deceit, telling the Truth is a revolutionary act."
Posts: 21322 | Registered: Dec 2003 | From: Hell and back, way back :o)
Member # 33226
| Posted: 10:16 AM, July 7th (Monday), 2014|
Thank you all so much.
There's no pulmonary embolism, but Dad continues to struggle with his breathing due to fluid build-up.
He's miserable and in pain. He is now talking about how he doesn't want to continue as he is, since his quality of life is gone. Although these are difficult things to hear, I am relieved that he is coming to terms with where he is and is able to talk about it openly with us.
Difficult days for all of us. Your thoughts and support are appreciated more than I can say.
You can call me NIK
"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana
Posts: 25843 | Registered: Aug 2011
Member # 42012
| Posted: 10:31 AM, July 7th (Monday), 2014|
Hey NIK. Just wanted to send more positive thoughts and strength for both you and your dad to get through.
I will be thinking of you today
25 years and counting of pain caused by mother's infidelity. Aftermath: 1 deceased sibling, 1 lost family, 3 lost souls.
"Each new day I am just glad to be alive and have survived all that I did." Ashland13
Posts: 2225 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Northeast US
Member # 34086
| Posted: 10:40 AM, July 7th (Monday), 2014|
Sending positive thoughts your way NIK.
Married: 17 years (14 @JFO)
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Posts: 4028 | Registered: Dec 2011
Member # 37455
| Posted: 10:44 AM, July 7th (Monday), 2014|
sending you more strength and prayers.
BH 51, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 20(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
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― Sophocles, Antigone
Posts: 3031 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
Member # 36134
| Posted: 11:38 AM, July 7th (Monday), 2014|
Keeping you and my family in my prayers.
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
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Posts: 5327 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
Member # 33457
| Posted: 11:59 AM, July 7th (Monday), 2014|
Posts: 1767 | Registered: Sep 2011
Member # 12041
| Posted: 12:40 PM, July 7th (Monday), 2014|
Sending you love and strength. I am so so sorry that you have to be so sad my friend.
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Posts: 45036 | Registered: Sep 2006
Member # 42092
| Posted: 2:15 PM, July 7th (Monday), 2014|
He must be a wonderful man to have raised you. I hope he improves...if not I hope there will be peace and dignity for him and an ability to choose his exit gracefully.
Sending peace and strength.
Sit. Feast on your life.
Posts: 4196 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: NYC
Member # 37826
| Posted: 4:47 PM, July 8th (Tuesday), 2014|
Sending prayers for comfort and support for you, your father and your family. This is a very difficult time, and it is so good that you can know that whatever happens is taking place in the context of the loving relationship that you and your father have created between you.
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Posts: 73 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: Chicago area
Member # 31240
| Posted: 5:21 PM, July 8th (Tuesday), 2014|
(((NIK & Dad & family)))
fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
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Posts: 10430 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
Member # 19258
| Posted: 5:58 PM, July 8th (Tuesday), 2014|
Thinking about you and your Dad. Sending out thoughts of peace and comfort for you.
But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned
“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler
Posts: 8462 | Registered: Apr 2008
Member # 10552
| Posted: 6:39 PM, July 8th (Tuesday), 2014|
(((Empress, dad and family)))))
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Posts: 15420 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Now an AZ girl
Member # 15584
| Posted: 11:01 PM, July 8th (Tuesday), 2014|
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Posts: 4212 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: michigan
Member # 33581
| Posted: 6:04 PM, July 10th (Thursday), 2014|
Sending you both peace and strength. (((NIK)))
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Posts: 1038 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Kailua-Kona, HI
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