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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 8:28 PM, June 21st (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Nik & dad)))

I'm so sorry. Sending mojo and prayers.


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LosferWords
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Default  Posted: 8:31 PM, June 21st (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK and Dad)))

Sending good thoughts and mojo.


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tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 8:38 PM, June 21st (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK & Dad)))

Go be with him.
(((And strength)))


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 8701 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
inconnu
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Default  Posted: 10:21 PM, June 21st (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((nik)))


Say what you wanna say and let the words fall out...honestly
I wanna see you be brave

Pretty pretty please, don't you ever ever feel
Like you're less than, less than perfect


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wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 10:26 PM, June 21st (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I missed this the first time around...I'm so sorry.

Take it from me. Go... go be with him.

(((Empress, Dad and family)))


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

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Unagie
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Default  Posted: 11:45 PM, June 21st (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I somehow missed this! NIK I will keep you and your father in my thoughts.


Heartbroken madhatter trying to rebuild

No longer together

"To be loyal to myself is to allow myself to grow and change, and challenge who I am and what I think."


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h0peless
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Default  Posted: 11:50 PM, June 21st (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK)))

Posts: 1731 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Baja Arizona
hexed
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Default  Posted: 11:53 PM, June 21st (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK))) thinking of you tonight


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


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CheaterMagnet
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Default  Posted: 12:32 AM, June 22nd (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh NIK! I don't come down here very often so I totally missed this. Sending you and your father peace, strength and love.


If Happy Ever After did exist, I would still be holding you like this.
All those fairly tales are full of shit.
One more fucking love song I'll be sick. ~ Maroon 5

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Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 1:14 AM, June 22nd (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Here for you always, love. (((NIK)))


Cherish those who seek the truth but beware of those who find it. - François-Marie Arouet

Posts: 17810 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 1:52 AM, June 22nd (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK)))


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


Posts: 52586 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
sisoon
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Default  Posted: 1:26 PM, June 22nd (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Still thinking of you.

(((NIK, dad, family)))


fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 10345 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 6:34 AM, June 24th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((((((NIK)))))))

Sending prayers and peace.


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

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sadone29
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Default  Posted: 8:51 AM, June 24th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending prayers your way

(((nik and dad)))


DDay Feb. 28, 2013
"I am pretty sure enforcing the boundary is the most important part of the boundary"- Jerry Seinfeld

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 2:38 PM, June 24th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Dad is still in the hospital. He's marginally better. Still struggling with shortness of breath, but has improved somewhat with additional diuretics.

He's continuing to fight swelling in his legs, high potassium levels, low hemoglobin levels, exhaustion, and bad food. They have him on a renal diet, which is apparently even worse than the diabetic meals he was given in his last hospitalization. The topic of food service is his focus in every conversation, so I know he's feeling a little better.

He has been too weak to use his walker, so they catheterized him this past weekend. He's miserable about that, but is becoming resigned to it. As those complaints recede, his observations on the hospital's ill-planned placement of outlets and bedside phones are taking their place. Just what you would expect from a retired engineer.

I'm sure the SI mojo, thoughts, and prayers have helped him. I know they've been a great source of comfort for me. Thank you all.


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


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MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 2:45 PM, June 24th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Continued prayers and mojo are going out.


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


Posts: 52586 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 3:07 PM, June 24th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK))))
Yes your dad is right. Renal diet sucks.
Sending strength, comfort, and peace.


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 8701 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
sisoon
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Default  Posted: 5:47 PM, June 24th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Nik's Dad))) (((NIK))) (((Nik's family)))


fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 10345 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 6:55 PM, June 24th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

...his observations on the hospital's ill-planned placement of outlets and bedside phones are taking their place. Just what you would expect from a retired engineer.

Awwww, buddy! That alone would make me feel a lot better.

Wits? Check!

(((NIK & Dad)))


Cherish those who seek the truth but beware of those who find it. - François-Marie Arouet

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Kajem
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Default  Posted: 6:59 PM, June 24th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((((NIK))))))


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

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