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User Topic: Fwb went horribly wrong - just need hugs
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Default  Posted: 8:31 AM, June 9th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Please don't beat yourself up about how things went down with this guy. You have known him a long time and had every reason to think you could trust him, and that he was a safe person. Something changed in him unfortunately. Yes, go get tested just for your own peace of mind. Sorry you had such a bad experience with him. Its sad when people change for the worse and leave us feeling confused and betrayed. Please be kind to yourself.

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Default  Posted: 8:44 AM, June 9th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((hugs))))) I'm so sorry you are feeling that way, and that you had such a bad experience with someone who turned out to be not who they said they were. I was married to someone like that (two, actually, so I made the mistake twice. )

But of course I am utterly flabbergasted as to how my life has tuned out. How in the hell did i end up like this?
I think that on a daily basis. What did I do wrong? I think it is something that those of us with a conscience and who trust others end up feeling from time to time though, because there are those without a conscience and they tend to do a number on those of us with one. Leaves us feeling confused, violated, just over-all icky......

Sorry you had to have that negative experience and I think it is good that you blocked him. There is something terribly wrong with him that he would disrespect you like that. Just remember, it is him, not you.

Original WS D-Day July 10, 2008. Kept lying, he is gone.
New WS (2 EA's, no PA) 12-3-13
If you don't like where you are, then change it. You are not a tree.

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Default  Posted: 8:56 AM, June 9th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Don't beat yourself up. It doesn't help. Believe me. I know from personal experience.

This was someone you knew.

D final 8/2012

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