I need to vent, but there is a question at the end, kind of a what would you do
Well dumbass douchbag what will it take to get my divorce from you?
You destroyed the marital home, it's not worth anything but the land, house needs to be demolished (it is unlivable and sits empty, there is a mortgage for more than what the land is worth), blew threw a ton of retirement money, you owe tens of thousands in back support, denied your children the use of the extended health benefits, have refused to pay your share of oldest chlds tuition, I waived it all, yet you still won't sign,
It's been 5 years, many offers to settle,
You piece of shit you were sent yet another settlement offer, which was in your favour, but would you sign hell no lets go to trial,which won't start until next year,he is in contempt of court for the 5th time, why so I can kick your stupid sorry ass
Now on to crashing his world
Thank god dumbass lives very far away, I just found out recently that over 10 years ago he sexually assaulted our daughter, it's historical so not sure how charges are going to go, the police asked that I not confront him, yet if it's going to take 2 or 3 years for him to be charged, I don't know that I can keep my mouth shut for that long, it's only been since March and it gets harder every second not to verbally attack him on the situation, thank god he is so far away cause I know if I ever lay eyes on him again, I will attack him
He has lived with multiple women in the last 5 years, I could careless cause I've been trying to get a divorce for over 5 years, it's more in my favour anyway, cause then his living expenses are cut in half as an example if his rent is 1000 he can only claim 500 cause the woman is responsible for her own keep,
This last one has contacted me multiple times, he has cheated on her in the double digits, they have only been together a couple of years, he joins sex sites she slams him on facebook,tells everyone, this has been going on for 2 years, she has even posted on my facebook wall about him joining a sex site, like I care, she seems a bit bat shit crazy,this last time his profile said he enjoyed rimming and more, he really is what he eats,yuck
The last message I received from her was just before my birthday, telling me to let him go that she is dying of cancer and I can have him back when she is dead,I have not wanted him back in 5 years why would I now, I message him once a month with a support reminder, it is him that continues to contact me, asking if we got back together would he need STD testing, the songs he wants to sing to me, it's about every 2-3 weeks that I receive some random message,
I don't like his behavior being projected on me, my birthday was in April he made sure he was the last one to text me (from a secret phone at 4 minutes until midnight) happy birthday hoping my special day was good, and that the kids did something nice for me, he also put 200 in my account for my birthday, he is the king of compartmentalization,
There is a few things that I feel like doing, one is posting that he sexually abused our daughter, let him bring a slander charge,I really wouldn't do that cause I don't want to damage my daughter,if she wants to make it public then that is her choice to make not mine
but I'd really like to post something along the lines of mushroom being kept in the dark and fed shit, with a copy of my bank statement with the deposit, it can be traced to a bank in his city, pictures of the text messages he sends totally unsolicited,
I should mention that he is diagnosed p/a, no treatment after diagnosis, and he runs really strong npd behavior, all the new people in his life believe that I'm horrible and have turned his kids against him, neither young adult has anything to do with him
Would you expos him?