Well, you can start a group
I joined a few MeetUp groups, went to Gymboree type stuff when the kids were little, go to parks and strike up conversations with other Moms too.
I moved every 2 years with my marriage and always had to make new friends….I likened to dating. Do they like me? will they want to go hang out? Eventually you just meet people….me...BS, 43 years old, 2 small kids
WS, 41, multiple gay affairs
M 15 years, together 17
"For whatever we lose, like a you or a me, it's always ourselves we find in the sea" ee cummings