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User Topic: Mojo please! B. In. law hospitalized in Moscow
tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 3:00 PM, June 19th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I cannot imagine how horribly hard this is on you and your family.

I only had to go 4 hours away when H had his MI, and that was hard enough.

Wishing you answers, and a plan soon.

((((and strength))))


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 8798 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
InnerLight
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Default  Posted: 7:20 PM, June 19th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How is your sister holding up?

She is doing amazingly well and staying up on the sea of paperwork, allowing space for her grief too. She is very very sad. She realizes this might the end of the line for her beloved husband. At the least he will be disabled. Chances of full recovery seem very slim, a fantasy, it would truly be a miracle.

I think there is so much to do to say abreast of the situation that there is only so much a person can allow themselves to feel. She is eating a little more this week. This is going to be a long experience for her, years.

Thank you for thinking of her, of me, of BIL, of our family. It is just...wow....


BS, now age 54, d-day 6-2-08, divorced after 17 years M and 20 together. In some ways I have not 'gotten over it'. But I am resilient and have created a good life where I am mostly happy.

Posts: 5903 | Registered: Jun 2008 | From: Rural California
InnerLight
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Default  Posted: 8:58 AM, June 20th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Today I got the news that he has been determined by the docs to be allowed to fly in the air ambulance. It will fly at sea level. They are looking at 3 choices of medical crews. The chosen crew will spend a day with my BIL (still in coma, on ventilator) before they fly out. I am sure hoping this works out and they both will be home soon, and the Russia chapter of this tragedy will be over. No offense to Russia, its just so far away.


BS, now age 54, d-day 6-2-08, divorced after 17 years M and 20 together. In some ways I have not 'gotten over it'. But I am resilient and have created a good life where I am mostly happy.

Posts: 5903 | Registered: Jun 2008 | From: Rural California
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 10:26 AM, June 20th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Keeping you and your family in my thoughts, IL. (((((hugs)))))


You can call me NIK

"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you."
-Walt Whitman


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Rebreather
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Default  Posted: 10:33 AM, June 20th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I hope he is home soon, IL. Many blessings to you all.


Me BS
Him WH
2 ddays in '07
Recovering.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi

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luvbug0915
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Default  Posted: 3:03 PM, June 20th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Holding you, sis and BIL in my thoughts and wrapping you all in love and light for his journey home.


"I haven't stopped looking for the good in people. I've just accepted the fact that I'm not always going to find it."-Patti LaBelle


Posts: 1053 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Metro Atlanta
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 3:27 PM, June 20th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So happy to hear this. What an operation. Wow...


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

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InnerLight
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Default  Posted: 6:49 PM, June 20th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Itinerary received. They should arrive in CA Monday night. So relieved. Some of my sister's friends have called me crying tears of relief.

[This message edited by InnerLight at 6:49 PM, June 20th (Friday)]


BS, now age 54, d-day 6-2-08, divorced after 17 years M and 20 together. In some ways I have not 'gotten over it'. But I am resilient and have created a good life where I am mostly happy.

Posts: 5903 | Registered: Jun 2008 | From: Rural California
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 6:51 PM, June 20th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So relieved to hear this! (((((IL, sis, BIL)))))


You can call me NIK

"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you."
-Walt Whitman


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hexed
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Default  Posted: 6:52 PM, June 20th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

so happy that this progress has been made. Still sending you all healing thoughts.


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


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InnerLight
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Default  Posted: 6:38 PM, June 22nd (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

One day postponement because of visa renewal delay. Oi Vey!

New departure is 10:40am Tuesday, Moscow time. which is 11:40pm Monday Pacific Time, arriving California 8:40pm PT.

There will be a doctor, nurse and respiratory therapist on board as well as his wife - my sister.

The plane is supposed to fly at sea level to avoid changes in pressure that would negatively affect BIL's health. I don't know how that is possible, and it sounds really dangerous. If there are any pilots here, please explain!

3 stops for refueling - Ireland, Newfoundland, Minnesota.

I will be thinking of them NON-STOP during this flight!

[This message edited by InnerLight at 6:40 PM, June 22nd (Sunday)]


BS, now age 54, d-day 6-2-08, divorced after 17 years M and 20 together. In some ways I have not 'gotten over it'. But I am resilient and have created a good life where I am mostly happy.

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yewtree
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Default  Posted: 12:02 AM, June 23rd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh goodness this is complicated! Safe travels to everyone!


Me(BS)45(at the time of D-day)

Divorced 2009, Closing on house Nov 2011 -
No longer waiting for the other "she" to drop.


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hexed
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Default  Posted: 6:22 AM, June 23rd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

hope the flights are going well today IL!


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


Posts: 8490 | Registered: Apr 2008
InnerLight
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Default  Posted: 7:06 PM, June 23rd (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Another delay. But only a few hours.

The flight will now leave at 1:40am Tuesday and be in 12:40am Wednesday.

I hope he doesn't die en route.


BS, now age 54, d-day 6-2-08, divorced after 17 years M and 20 together. In some ways I have not 'gotten over it'. But I am resilient and have created a good life where I am mostly happy.

Posts: 5903 | Registered: Jun 2008 | From: Rural California
InnerLight
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Default  Posted: 9:09 AM, June 24th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I texted with my sister while she was waiting to go to the hospital. She is not normally anxious about flying but she was terribly nervous about this 20 hour flight and worried how it affect her sick husband. She was just trying to breathe and read inspirational literature. It was so hard to find the words that might help without being annoying. I settled on 'I love my brave little sister.' and she texted back, 'I love my strong, resourceful big sister.'

In the middle of the night I checked her FB and she had posted from the airport saying it was 35 minutes to departure, and that her H had made the transport to the airport OK.

So they are in the air, out of contact, and I am just praying they land safely. Another 17 more hours or so to go....


BS, now age 54, d-day 6-2-08, divorced after 17 years M and 20 together. In some ways I have not 'gotten over it'. But I am resilient and have created a good life where I am mostly happy.

Posts: 5903 | Registered: Jun 2008 | From: Rural California
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 9:15 AM, June 24th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Every finger and toe is crossed that the journey is smooth and uneventful for all, IL. Sending you strength for the long day of waiting ahead. ((((IL, sis, BIL, flight crew))))


You can call me NIK

"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you."
-Walt Whitman


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tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 9:37 AM, June 24th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What NIK said.

Hang in there.

(((and strength, and mojo, and prayers))))


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

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metamorphisis
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Default  Posted: 10:13 AM, June 24th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending love and strength and mojo for a peaceful and safe flight.



“We don't see things as they are; we see them as we are.”... Anais Nin

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hexed
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Default  Posted: 1:25 PM, June 24th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

so happy that he is in the air on the way. sending lots of love to your sister and BIL


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


Posts: 8490 | Registered: Apr 2008
InnerLight
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Default  Posted: 4:04 PM, June 24th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Landed safely In Newfoundland to refuel, trip halfway over.
Bro in law stable


BS, now age 54, d-day 6-2-08, divorced after 17 years M and 20 together. In some ways I have not 'gotten over it'. But I am resilient and have created a good life where I am mostly happy.

Posts: 5903 | Registered: Jun 2008 | From: Rural California
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