I'm wearing a maxi dress, but a little cleavage showing. Very appropriate for hanging out with my kids on a hot day.
A guy about my age comes in and sits at the bar. I feel him checking me out when he comes in, and I ignore it. He is sitting in front of us (but his back to us), under the TV, so I can't help but look his general direction while my son and I were discussing the game.
Every chance he gets, he looks back at me and I make sure to not make eye contact. Then, I watch him ogle every woman that walks in the restaurant. Like, his head is spinning around so much I'm surprised he can eat.
I finally catch a glance at his hand…wedding band.
It made me sick. It took everything I had to not walk up to him and tell him I feel sorry for his wife. If my kids weren't with me…I just may have.
"For whatever we lose, like a you or a me, it's always ourselves we find in the sea" ee cummings
Do you ever want to just slap a person?
The type of fierce loyalty that I possess made me incapable of comprehending the level of disloyalty that he possessed
Tact is for people who aren't witty enough to be sarcastic.
Only every day of my life.
I got my new beer and walked back to BFF. He FOLLOWED me, then started talking to us, and I noticed his wedding ring.
After a few minutes of chatting, where it was pretty obvious he was drunk, I excused us and walked away. My bestie said, "It was just talking to a drunk guy…."
I wonder if I will always look at the world different after infidelity. I didn't see that as innocent. Granted, he didn't say anything inappropriate, but he clearly was watching me and followed me and was looking for an open opportunity to talk to me. Wonder what his wife would think??
Why can't a single guy do that to me?