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User Topic: i honestly cant do this anymore :-(
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Default  Posted: 3:19 PM, June 22nd (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

~but i don't want to sabotage me marriage focusing on making myself happy and ignoring him.~

Lots of self-blame here. You are not sabotaging the marriage - he already has. If he's not making you happy, why can't you make yourself happy without feeling guilty? There's no guilt in that. If he's already ignoring you, what makes you think he'll notice that you are ignoring him?

Always take care of YOU!!!

D-day: 6/20/08, 7/15/08
ME: BS/43
HIM: WS/41
OW#1: 44 YO - EA/PA lasted over a year!
OW#2: 55+ YO - PA/EA approx 8 months
STATUS: Spent 6 years trying to recover. I moved out; finally recovering nicely.

Posts: 135 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Western Wisconsin
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Default  Posted: 3:27 PM, June 22nd (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Agree with laid2waste 100%

Don't tie your happiness to the tail of somebody else's kite

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