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Betrayeduk
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Default  Posted: 5:20 AM, June 15th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think I've got nothing left to give. I've reached the point where I'm starting to believe I imagined it all. Blew it up out of proportion.

Husband got amorous when I got in from nightshift this morning and I feel dirty as I let him.

Maybe it is all me.


Posts: 60 | Registered: Jun 2014
Twotimesucker
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Default  Posted: 5:43 AM, June 15th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This for me would be when I leave.

So sorry. Cheating sucks.


Me BS-45
Her WW-36
D-Day3/31/14
Working towards R

Posts: 31 | Registered: Apr 2014
tfkeel
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Default  Posted: 8:14 AM, June 15th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I've reached the point where I'm starting to believe I imagined it all. Blew it up out of proportion.

Gaslighting works.

It's either that "you're crazy" or "it's your fault".

Well, you have us here to tell you, that it's NEITHER. You have EVIDENCE, and you are NOT assigning weight to this disproportionately.

I also replied on your other thread.


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Brundelfly
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Default  Posted: 10:38 AM, June 15th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

betrayeuk

http://interventiontreatmentrecovery.org/education/codependency/?gclid=CMTW66eb_L4CFZFufgodZFsAKw

You should really look up some CO D help books.

DOnt be a door matt.


Me: BH, 48
Her: WW, 44
Together 25 years, married 18+
LTA x 2 (6yr and 2 yr)
DD: 9 years old
Detoxing Alcoholic WW
Wondering what to do...

Posts: 14 | Registered: Jun 2014 | From: Pasadena
Betrayeduk
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Default  Posted: 1:34 PM, June 15th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Brundelfly - have done some cod research. Sounds familiar.........

It just does now seem that I am crazy. I really do think maybe whatever it was ended in January. I think maybe. I don't know.

I know I'm not doing so good. Can't sleep. Food is horrible. I work in medical profession and am doing everything I would lecture others on.

I take full responsibility for the mess I'm in now. And I know there is stuff I can do but I acknowledge I'm too scared.


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