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Default  Posted: 9:53 PM, June 17th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Tell your sister to bite you. Not really, but you can think it.
I do not have kids either. Just my opinion, but I think that does add a layer to losing a parent or a parent getting older. If you have children, you see daily that life continues through them. When you don't have that it adds to the mortality shock and the fear of being truly alone when the parent is gone.

When my Mother died, I remember thinking that my siblings still had families, but I did not. Which I do, but you might understand what I mean.

Me- BS
Him- FWS (I hope- F)

Posts: 6657 | Registered: Aug 2008 | From: Not Oz
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Default  Posted: 1:15 AM, June 18th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Tell your sister to bite you.

Oh....I HAVE!

For some reason she is so SHOCKED that "I" can be such a heartless bitch.

Yes, Pentup - I get what you mean completely. My two sisters have whole families - husbands, children and marriages into the double digits. Here I sit with just a dog (which is actually better than humans ) - no kids, no husband and grey hair. Yes it DOES add a layer to the trauma at having watched my mother die and watch my dad get older by the day. My sisters have something to fall back on whereas I do not at this time.

Me 47
ExH 43
Divorced 2010

47 is the new year of treating myself better than I have in 6 years.

What ever doesn't kill me makes me stronger so long as I remember that

My favorite drink is no longer Guinness but water. Call me Dasani23

Posts: 668 | Registered: Mar 2014 | From: Indiana
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Default  Posted: 9:54 PM, June 18th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

When the play "Phantom of the Opera" came out years ago, one song included is called "Wishing You Were Somehow Here Again" composed for Christine to sing about her dad.

Guinness23, I lost my Dad in 1987, and I cry like a baby when I hear this song... Daddies are our first hero's.

Posts: 364 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: Florida
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Default  Posted: 10:29 PM, June 18th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so happy his eyesight is got to turn back the clock a bit.

And anesthesia makes ME unable to judge when I need to pee. I wet myself after collarbone surgery...and I was 46 at the time.

Appreciate him, and know that you did right by him.

Me: BS 52
Him: FWS 54
Married 28 years
Son-22 Daughter-19,
D-Day #1 12/11/2007
D-Day #2 5/23/2008 fucking trickle truth!
Whatever Threnody said, I concur.

Posts: 2096 | Registered: Feb 2008 | From: Chicago suburbs
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Default  Posted: 11:15 PM, June 18th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I can only imagine. I lost my father to heart disease when he was 46. 81 would be a blessing.

[This message edited by Want2help at 11:15 PM, June 18th (Wednesday)]

BS- me.
FWS- him.
DDay 6/07 (immediately separated)
RDay 8/07
OC born 3/08
OC Adopted 2014


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