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WeepingBuddhist
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Default  Posted: 1:30 PM, June 17th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am going to meet a guy I met OLD. I'm in a tiny town and it turns out we know some of the same folks so I'm not worried about him being a serial killer. I'm more freaked out than I expected.


Me: BS 46
Him: LCB--lying, cheating bastard 50
D-Day 4-27-13
DIVORCED!!! 2-20-14

Posts: 528 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Columbus
courageous
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Default  Posted: 1:31 PM, June 17th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good luck! You will be fine


Me: BW (35)
Him: ExWH (31) EA/PA with MOW coworker
Married 9 years, 2 small kids
dday 3/12/2011 divorced fall 2012

My ipad does a lot of crazy typos.


Posts: 618 | Registered: Jan 2012
MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 1:32 PM, June 17th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Imagine him in his underwear. No wait, that is for public speaking.

Relax and enjoy the moment.


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 1:45 PM, June 17th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Think of it as just a chance to get to know someone new. Relax and enjoy.


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 1:46 PM, June 17th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I hope you have a wonderful time.

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norabird
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Default  Posted: 1:56 PM, June 17th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

If it's any comfort, in my experience the pre-meeting butterflies go away as soon as the date actually starts.

Have fun!


Sit. Feast on your life.

Posts: 3724 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: NYC
WeepingBuddhist
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Default  Posted: 2:02 PM, June 17th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's not bad. On a scale of one to ten, I'd say I'm maybe a four. Worst case scenario, is he's a nice guy to have a beer with now and then. I think what's freaking me out is that I don't know what I would consider a best case scenario.


Me: BS 46
Him: LCB--lying, cheating bastard 50
D-Day 4-27-13
DIVORCED!!! 2-20-14

Posts: 528 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Columbus
tabitha95
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Default  Posted: 4:20 PM, June 17th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good luck. What I have discovered is the more worried I am about the date, the less I'm really thinking the guy and I are matches. The ones where I feel more comfortable going in, are the ones where I'm not feeling judged by them.


BW (me) - 45
DS 14, DS 11
D-Day#1: Oct 30, 2008
D-Day#2: June 3, 2011 (same MOW) Separation: June 3, 2011
Divorce finalized: Feb 2012 (due to 6 month waiting period).

Posts: 3247 | Registered: Dec 2008
WeepingBuddhist
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Default  Posted: 8:47 AM, June 18th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

All went well. We had a beer and both had to head back out to the country. We will meet again. Not sure if I even want anything other than a smart, funny (and super cute!!!) guy to have a beer with now and then. thanks for the good mojo!


Me: BS 46
Him: LCB--lying, cheating bastard 50
D-Day 4-27-13
DIVORCED!!! 2-20-14

Posts: 528 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Columbus
norabird
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Default  Posted: 9:10 AM, June 18th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Nothing wrong with having a cute drinking buddy!


Sit. Feast on your life.

Posts: 3724 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: NYC
WeepingBuddhist
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Default  Posted: 9:37 AM, June 18th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My thoughts exactly!


Me: BS 46
Him: LCB--lying, cheating bastard 50
D-Day 4-27-13
DIVORCED!!! 2-20-14

Posts: 528 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Columbus
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