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User Topic: Hi to all my oldtimers just checking in.
Ibelieveinme
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Default  Posted: 7:01 PM, June 17th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hi Everyone,

I just want you all to know that I think of you (and you know who you are) all of the time. I give thanks to this site and the relationships I have made on here and you all will be in my heart.

I can't believe it has been 8 years since I discovered my H's stupid side But, I will tell you that I am glad we worked it out and it is so very true, infidelity is NOT always the end to end all.

For those of you that have doubts and think you can't do this, but you have a W Spouse that is truly working hard, take the advice on here and work through it, you will so be glad you did!

Oh....and we are going to be first time grandparents of TWINS - a boy and a girl so I will refer to them as Phil and Lil

Thanks again and I will be back!

I love you ALL!




Posts: 1842 | Registered: Jul 2006
Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 7:22 PM, June 17th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh my gosh look who's here!!! Soooooo good to see you!! You sound wonderful and that just makes my heart sing with joy!!!


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


Posts: 198804 | Registered: May 2002
Ibelieveinme
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Default  Posted: 7:36 PM, June 17th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hi DS I SOOOOO love you . I am eternally grateful for this site and am eternally grateful to you as well! I have a friend that is going through this and she asked me how I stayed so sane through it all and I pointed her to here, I sure hope she comes into a wonderful caring group of people.

Yes, truly happy and am glad that we worked to keep our family together. Forgiveness is freeing!

I hope you are doing well! The site looks just awesome you have earned your wings girl!

XXOO

Ibelieveinme




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Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 7:44 PM, June 17th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just adore you!!!! You are a ray of sunshine when people need it most

And twins!!!! How wonderful is that! And I'm positive you're going to spoil those little grandbabies like no other!

I wish I could hug you!!!!


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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LA44
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Default  Posted: 7:46 PM, June 17th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hello, I registered long after you Ibelieve but I just read your post and I thank you for it! The R forum has been very low indeed for the last few weeks so I am hoping many more see your post and are encouraged.

Twins! How wonderful! Glad you and your spouse are in a better place.


Me: 44
He: 47 WH
Married: 15 years
D Day: December 2012
Affair: Fall 2009 - Dec. 2011
R is not linear

Posts: 2589 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Canada, eh
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 7:52 PM, June 17th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome update!! I'm so glad to hear R is going well.

Congrats on twin grandbabies. "Phil and Lil" I loved Rugrats.


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Ibelieveinme
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Default  Posted: 11:16 PM, June 17th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you all so much! DS I felt the love and the hug!!!!

I often thought that through my journey I would come back and pay it forward. For a while, I needed to step away from here and take all the advice and grow on my own.

LA44, ask away, PM me I will help you if I can. I erased my story, not that I erased it from my mind, but this just does not define me anymore. Long story short, married 32 years, high school sweatheart and my H was on a business trip and met a woman who didn't want to have a deep relationship just a little fun. Well, she turned into a very sad person who could not let go and eventually, she attempted what she promised to do, destroy the marriage so he would come back to her. Unfortunately, she turned out to be a true "bunny boiler" and I am not making light of this. She was very destructive. I could tell you horror stories, but they are not worth my time, she only taught me lessons and I consider her a blessing in my life. Hope this makes some sense to you.

In any event, I read on this site like there was no tomorrow, I posted at my happiest times, saddest times and with a few too many in me but there was no judgement only caring people watching over hurting people. So...pm me ask away I took the advice on here and went with it and I thank God every day for the life that I have.




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bionicgal
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Default  Posted: 7:45 AM, June 18th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I posted at my happiest times, saddest times and with a few too many in me but there was no judgement only caring people watching over hurting people

What a lovely description of SI.


me - BS (45) - DDay - June 2013
A was 2+ months, EA/PA
In MC & Reconciling
"Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point to move forward." -- C.S. Lewis.

Posts: 2143 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: USA
Lalagirl
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Default  Posted: 10:21 AM, June 18th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh....and we are going to be first time grandparents of TWINS - a boy and a girl so I will refer to them as Phil and Lil

Congrats! Being a grandparent is so awesome...my first grandbaby was born a couple years after I joined SI...now we're on #4!

Good to "see" you, fellow oldtimer!!


Me - 49; FWH - 51
Married 31 years 9/2/14
2 grown daughters-30 & 27
5yo GS,2yo GD & 3 mo. GD (DD30) and 2.5 yo GD(DD27). D-day #1 - 1/06; D-day #2 - 3/07
Reconciled! Construction Complete.

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