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User Topic: the OW behaviour has made me distrustful and paranoid of women
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Default  Posted: 11:04 AM, June 30th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I too blamed the OW until I realised he let it happen, he went along with it, he wasn't forced, and then he lied deceived denied

Of course the husband's took the bait, and that is wrong.

Still, women are becoming more predatory than in the past.

In the past women did NOT seem quite so sex oriented as men.

That has changed, and there are women from the hook up generation who are on OW forums actually crowing about how they baited a married man into cheating, and how it strokes their egos, and how they always get them to spend money on them.

Still, yes, the dopey man takes the bait and jumps through their manipulative hoops like a trained seal.

Still, when I was dating and single, I would not even date a man that one of my women friends was SIMPLY INTERESTED IN, let alone married to or dating.

I just could not betray a woman friend in that way.

[This message edited by seethelight at 11:04 AM, June 30th (Monday)]

ďIf two people truly have feelings for one another then they donít have an affair. They get a divorce and they sort out their feelings. You are accountable for the people you hold hostage in a marriage when your mind and heart refuse to fully commit

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